Is there anyone out there that is like me?

Question

I am a 22 yr. old female with an A cup! With "all the world" hyped up on big breasts, I feel so low! Is the only answer breast augmentation? Because I can't seem to look passed it when I walk out of the house or turn on the T.V. You know what..even when I look in the mirror:(! My boyfriend trys to bring up my self-esteem but I only bring him down with me!

Answer 1

I'm a guy, and don't attach much importance to breast size. It is important to shallow people, in my opinion. I am attracted to a woman's smile, the twinkle in her eyes, her kindness, intelligence and spirit. Count yourself lucky that your boyfriend likes you the way you are.

Remember, big breasts weigh a lot, and your back will hurt. They'll hurt when you run. They'll sag, eventually. Implants can leak, rupture, or move, and they don't feel right. They can interfere with lactation later.

Emphasize what you have with posture and weight lifting.

Seriously, learn to like yourself; your boyfriend likes you the way you are, Big breasts won't make you beautiful.

I do know a lot of women who've had augmentation; most of them report increased attention by men, and an increase in self confidence. I've always wondered why they'd want to be with a man who only cared about their breast size. Several friends have had serious medical problems with theirs.

You could experiment before augmentation surgery by trying some good prosthetic forms.

But I would humbly suggest that you learn to see that your Self is much more that boobs and butt.

Answer 2

Been there, done that. I've always been small boned and tiny. My normal weight was about 95 for most of my adult life. I was an A cup too. Then I gained a little weight, and am now a B. At 40 years old, I feel very comfortable with my body. Many men love small breasted women, and most men, from what I've heard, will prefer a "real" A to an "augmented" C or D. It's never stopped me having all the boyfriends I could juggle or make time for.
I don't think you should worry about it, but everybody doesn't see it that way. Therefore, you should do what you feel is best for you. My daughter is your age, and she wears push up, padded bras.
I, for one, wouldn't even want my breasts messed with surgically.
I say be happy with what you've got, but if you can't, just have the surgery.

Answer 3

Breasts are fatty tissue. If you put on weight then you may get bigger breasts...however that isn't a guarantee. If you want to get big breasts then surgery is your only option.

Frankly, I think you should be happy with what you have. I have BIG breasts. (38F) It is a family inheritance and sometimes it feels like a curse. I have back problems, I can't buy a bra off the rack, and you don't want to hear about my under boob sweat problems. (ewww) I can't even do aerobic exercise because they bounce and it hurts too much. Yes, I've worn double sports bras but then I can't breath.

My SIL is an A cup and is lovely as all heck. Also, Gwen Stefani is also modestly endowed. She is gorgeous.

Answer 4

No matter what we look like, there will always be media hype making us feel inadequate.
Too short, too fat, too flat, whatever.

Breast augmentation is not always the best solution, but modern techniques make it safer and more affordable than a few years ago. And while it may not be the best option for you, you will only know if you discuss it with a surgeon.

I wish that it was a viable altenative for me at your age.
So go find out more, see if its something you are willing to do, then just do it (if its right for you).

Answer 5

Don't let the hype on TV dictate how you should look. I happen to prefer smaller breasted women, they are more sensitive and healthier in general. You have to admit the women that have had it done are only fooling themselves, they look tacky and they are not attractive. Look at Pamala Anderson, who can't tell they aren't real, you may as well be with a manican, they are both plastic. You are young and feeling pressure now, don't make a desicion you will regret later. Look into how many have had it and now are having problems.

Answer 6

Well first of all i will say what you have probably heard a thousand times, be happy with what you have. Think of all the positives to having a petite bust- you can wear strapless tops (without them looking ridiculous), you never need worry about stretch marks or sagging, you don't need to wear a bra when you answer the door. Appreciate that your man is happy and try to put your focus on something you feel positive about. Maybe you should take up a hobby that puts emphasis on the important things in life.

Answer 7

Ok, now I can understand why you might want breasts, but listen to me... I have breasts ad they are like the worst part of a female body. Every time I turn around one of my boobs is knocking something over or getting in my way. I constantly have back aches. And everytime I try to have a serious conversation with a man, I find his eyes staring right at my taters. Ok, so they are not all they are cracked up to be. We always want what we don't have. :(

Answer 8

Oh if you knew how fortunate you are. Small breasted women
look so nice in their clothes. You don't have bra straps cutting
into your shoulders. As you get older you won't sag & bag. You are beautiful, don't think of yourself as your breast. You are you! Some worry about a big nose, or a thin lip, or maybe a big butt. I love my man for who he is, not his looks etc. I think
he loves me just the same. I am a fairly thin person with a size D bra. I wish I were smaller, but I would never have surgery to change myself. Be happy with who you are.

Answer 9

No...try looking for clothing styles that bring attention up. You know, detailed collars, etc. It doesn't matter so much on body shape as the way you hold yourself, and the worse you feel, the more people look at you like you're not up to standard.

I've got an A+. It's annoying, since I know it's not going to change...I've got Asian genetics, and as racist as it sounds, it's true for that part. However...I do count my blessings. I can run without my breasts flopping around, I don't have guys stare at my chest instead of my face, I don't have to worry about them making a surprise appearance if I wear something low-cut. It's not so bad.

Answer 10

Maybe they are hyped up on the boob-thing. But why worry? You have a BF who really cares about you. Don't let yourself fall under the depression of peer pressure. Just focus on your life and the people who care about you (like your sweet BF). If anybosy trys to put you down, walk off and think, "I'm better than that." Because it's true!