Okay so i have boyfriend and we've been going out for a month, and i like him. But all of a sudden he hasn't been calling me, at all. He ignores me sometimes. He has a "bestfriend," a girl, and he's always hugging her and flirting with her. I really don't wanna dump him though, he says he's going through some problems at home, but i don't what to believe.
2007-10-14 09:13:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are his love interest, than he should be showering you with all that hugging and flirting. And the excuse that he's having problems at home isn't a good excuse either, because you should be his support system, sounding board for issues going on his life. It's important that you communicate and include your significant other so that there aren't these kind of "doubts." I think I'd have a question about his honesty. I'm pretty secure, not the jealous type, because I feel like you can't watch someone 24/7 and what's done in the dark always comes to light --but I think God gave women the gift of intuition for a reason, because we become mothers. But most women tend to ignore that "voice" because of selfish reasons, we like the guy, can't believe he would be unfaithful, etc., but often times we know, we just don't want to admit it to ourselves. If your gut is telling you things aren't right, than they probably aren't.
2007-10-14 09:36:35 · answer #1 · answered by Cris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you're boyfriend I would not flirt with other girls especially in front of you and hugging her. As a matter of fact, I wouldn't even care to hang out with other girls. If he's into you, he would hang out with you. Dump the guy! He's making excuses.
2007-10-14 09:18:22 · answer #2 · answered by Cake17 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he probably isn't cheating, if he was, he wouldn't make it evident that he flirts with this other girl. also, i have guy friends, we hug a lot and sometimes when we're talking it sounds like we're flirting but we aren't.
trust your boyfriend, and try to help him with the problems he is having at home.
if you feel like he is neglecting you recently, that might be a reason to dump him.
2007-10-14 09:26:31 · answer #3 · answered by marrriharri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably is going through some stuff at home so if you are going to stay with him you are going to need to be extra understanding. I'm not sure if it's worth all that at your age, though. Dating should be fun and not alot of drama!
2007-10-14 09:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by itsallgood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meh, don't be a doormat. He obviously isn't that into you if he is doing all that, regardless of whether or not he is cheating. Fine yourself someone who really cares about you.
2007-10-14 09:19:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes havin problems at home why isnt he comin to his girlfriend? seems like he isnt taken the relationship very seriously.
2007-10-14 09:20:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask him about this girl but you should dump him before u get dumped
2007-10-14 09:17:24 · answer #7 · answered by b_ashley_n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go, he's got something for this other one. Find someone else.
2007-10-14 09:19:31 · answer #8 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not interested in you so don't waste your time waiting for him.
2007-10-14 09:17:22 · answer #9 · answered by Aleena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋