there is this guy, and i really like him. he has a girlfriend, and they have been going out for some time now. he made the first move on me, but then i followed. does that make me as bad as him. he comes up to me and flirts, but i flirt back. i try to stop thinking about him but i cant, no matter how hard i've tried!!! he is always looking over at me and i am smiling back. we talk at car rider(the only time he is with his girlfriend) when we r at car rider she is around her friends, and is so ignoring him, so i talk to him. he walks past me looking at me and smiling, for no reason! but i love it..
2007-10-14 06:42:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is it ok if i use him? if what most of u r saying is right, is it ok if i use the jerk?
2007-10-14 07:07:52 · update #1
Tell him to sling his hook !!!
He's deffo in the wrong luvvie.
We all like to feel good and theres nothing better than getting chatted up ....... But he has a girlfriend so back off, how would you feel if he was your boyfriend ??? Knowing that he chatted you up while he was with his girlfriend, he doesnt sound like boyfriend material but more like a serial womaniser.
Keep chatting him if you like but i assure you if it goes any further you will deeply regret it sweetie.
xxx
2007-10-14 06:49:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both are. If you had a boyfriend and he was going around behind your back checking out other girls, flirting with them etc. you wouldn't like it. I wouldn't be attracted to someone that dishonest and disrespectful. What he does to her -- he'll do to any girl including you. Yes, it's nice to have a handsome guy flirt with you but you have to pay attention to more than just looks. His actions should be a huge red flag.
Every time he flirts with you and you flirt back, you are just as bad. You are encouraging his behavior. You know the saying... It takes two to tango... Believe me, if you stop flirting with him -- he'll just find someone else. You're nothing special to him.
2007-10-14 06:50:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jasmine808 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he breaks up with the other girl, then talk to him. Because you are bf/gf doesn't mean you have to talk 24/7 to have a good relationship. Some guys will say anything to cheat, and then you'll be the other woman.
2007-10-14 06:53:19 · answer #3 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is most likely just after sex with you so just know that, he will not leave his girl, and you have to decide if that is all you want wilth him.
2007-10-14 06:49:32 · answer #4 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋