16 year old girl and 21 year old boy
2007-10-14 06:00:00 · 32 answers · asked by on and on we go 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
good point libbyft. that is eww! got it.
2007-10-14 06:05:49 · update #1
Hmm, that's a bit of a stretch at that age... Wait until you're 21 and he's 25 ;-) It'll sound better to your family and you'll have more in common then, trust me! A lot of stuff happens between the ages of 16 and 21, find someone your own age and experience all of that with him. You'll get more out of it! Plus, yes, he's either rather immature or his intentions arn't the best :-) Good luck!
2007-10-14 06:05:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a question that must be answered by those in the relationship, or someone close by with a good perspective on the relationship.
In married couples, it's not uncommon to have gaps of multiple years between the two people. It could be that your situation is completely innocent, or that the male has no bad intentions at all...
However, more often than not, I would say yes...
He just wants some easy sex...
2007-10-14 06:06:04 · answer #2 · answered by Matthew N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all people have bad intentions. My brother in law was 20 when he first started going out with an almost 17 year old. Ten years later they are married and have a 2 year old and a 1 year old.
2007-10-14 06:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by heather c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When i was 16, I met my bf and he was 20. Now we just turned 18 and 22. We are still together and Im not sure of his intentions in the beginning, but I know that he began to like me a lot and that is why we went out and we still are going out almost 2 years later!!
2007-10-14 06:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's all your going to give us go ask your dad what he thought about when he was 21 and single.
At 16 you may be too young to know the signs that he does only have one intention, and you may be too small to fight him off. Don't be fooled by your overun of emotions now, your body is changing and making you think differently, you probably think boy your age imature and all, you can start slowly being friends with this guy, if he pushes too hard, well there's your answer.
2007-10-14 06:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know about the bad intentions, but it's wrong - look at it the other way round - do you think it's okay for a 16 year old to go with an 11 year old??
2007-10-14 06:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by libbyft 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dated someone who was 17 when I was 21.
I had no bad intentions.
Turned out we became better friends than lovers though.
2007-10-14 06:03:26 · answer #7 · answered by Jorge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless he is forest gump then yes
the only reason that a 21 year old would be looking at a 16 year old is either bad in tensions or not having luck any where else and thinks that young can be impressed by the age and difference
2007-10-14 06:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by bewareofuser 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely.
At those ages, the adolescence is powering through the body and it's all anyone can think about. The intentions may not be "bad" really, but they certainly are "bed."
2007-10-14 06:11:03 · answer #9 · answered by wrathofkublakhan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My partner is 25, and I'm about to turn 19, we've been together nearly two years and have a lovely little boy, who we planned together. So no not always, but I know I got lucky!!
2007-10-14 06:39:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋