What do you do if you are teased by bullies daily?

Question

HELP! they have teased me for months now and only once has there been a concrete reason to tell a teacher and even then they didnt get in trouble!

Answer 1

Most likely you have something they don't have, and they do this so they feel better about themselves. Which is a pretty lousy thing to do. Just kill them with kindness and thye will get confused and stop.

Answer 2

Here is what Dr. Phil has to say. I copied that from the link
http://www.drphil.com/articles/article/245/
Maybe your teacher or School Director need to read it too.

(And there are many other links about bullies at his web page:
http://www.drphil.com/search/results/?S=bullies)

Dr. Phil offers some advice to any parent or child dealing with bullying. He uses Katie as an example.

"What they're doing has nothing to do with you," he says. "It's not because you're not fun or you're not a good person." If the bullies weren't giving Katie a hard time, they'd be doing it to someone else. It has nothing to do specifically with Katie or her value as a person.

Perhaps they do it to her, Dr. Phil suggests, "because they know you're nice and you won't do anything mean to them." He doesn't want Katie to stop being nice. Instead, he tells Katie to speak to the girls individually. Call one of them on the phone at home, for example, telling her that it's painful to be picked on.

Bullies are nothing more than cowards. That's why they often group together to pick on someone. When they're separated, they're gutless. That's why dealing with people individually is crucial. When you look him/her straight in the eye, he/she will begin to shrink.

When explaining to a child why others are bullies, Dr. Phil says: "Some people just are real angry, so they take it out on other people."

Advice for parents: Empower your children. Be assertive. Call the bullies' parents. Be involved. Speak with your child's teachers to make sure there's an attitude that bullying will not be tolerated.

Advice for teachers: If one child is getting bullied, it needs to be everybody's business. Instill a value system in the classroom and on the playground that someone who sits silently and watches a bully is as guilty as the bully himself. Keep a spirit of inclusion — and enforce it.

Answer 3

you shouldn't worry about it.
I know you will, but, try to think of the good things
you have in your life and ignore those jerks. don't even
look at them. don't give them the satisfaction of reacting.
Like a stone thrown in a calm puddle creates ripples,
they are trying to make you act a certain way. If you react the way they want you to by getting upset or whatever, you are doing exactly what they want you to do.
if you act like it doesn't bother you
you will become a less interesting target.
stay above what they say
keep your chin up and your spirits high.
really what they think doesn't matter
and they just look like idiots to everyone else around...
you can't really help how you feel inside
but, you don't have to show that to them. Smile
and act like you have a happy secret.

Answer 4

I can relate the best thing for you to do is stand up for your self tell them off if you get in to trouble then tell the teacher that you have told them and that they did nothing so you stood up for your self
the best thing to do is stand up for yourself and be stern about it let them no you are not going to put up with them picking on you tell them to get a life that they only pick on you so that there own petty lifes seem better hope this helps

Answer 5

The Number 1 Sign a Bully Looks For...

Lack of self-confidence and low-self-esteem. The bully will always look for what they believe to be the weakest target. They don't want to take a chance on someone fighting back. They are out to prove their superiority, not to look foolish.

You Need to Step Up and Take Action!

-Build your self esteem!!

Answer 6

if the teacher doesn't do anything about it then report it to a higher person, i believe that in this case it is most probably the principle and u should also discuss it with ur parents or guardian too- bullies usually dont go anywhere in life.... u'll see that in 20 years or so from now u'll be doing something meaningful with your life and they'll look like big losers! so dont let them bring u down!! u dont deserve to be treated like that! and finally stay strong!!!

Answer 7

Getting bullied is misery.
I attached a site and I hope it has helpful information.
I hope you have someone you trust and can confide in.

Answer 8

Well i don't personally have this problem because i'm popular and a prep in school and out of school but from my friends making fun of people it bothers the hell out of my friends and they usually stop when the person getting made fun of says "are you done yet?" then walks away, just keep doing that and they'll stop.

Answer 9

You have to learn to defend yourself, strengthen yourself spiritually, mentally. Either that or just submit to them and be crushed under their influence.

The choice is yours. Choose wisely.

Answer 10

this is easy, either knock them out or report them. if you stand and do nothing,then nothing is going to happen.