Im 14 and just had a massive fight with my mum because i broke the computer desk by accident. Shes so unreasonable and just caries on the argument even when im in tears!!! I wish i had never been born.I would run away but ive had lessons about homelessness in school and it sounds rubbish, so im just going to lock my self in my room for the rest of my life and talk to knowone! Any ideas on what i can do know? and i my dad doesnt even know about the desk yet... im dreading it! please help before i do something i reget!!!
thanks
x x x
2007-10-14 02:19:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
she has just come into my room and shes screamed at me for getting mascara on my clean bedding, its her bloody fault for making me cry. I think she came in just to make me feel worse!!! i seriously hate her at the moment!
2007-10-14 02:24:41 · update #1
thankfuly my fabulous sister fixed the desk for me, still not talking to my mum but atleast i dont have to worry about my dad now.
thanks for everyones help!
x x x
2007-10-14 03:15:48 · update #2
What you are feeling is pretty normal for your age. you are becomming an adult and growing out of your childhood, and are somewhere in between.
Everything seems unfair and sucks sometimes. I would talk to your mum when you are both in a better mood and tell her how you feel. I am sure she remembers what life is like at that age.She probably isn't trying to hurt you. Sometimes parents have a hard time with their kids growing up.
Calm down. Don't run away. I have been homeless before, and starvation sucks worse than what you are going through.This is all a part of growing up, and perfectly natural for you to feel this way, but please do not act on these impulses. There will be plenty of time for you to live on your o\wn in a few years when you can support yourself.
2007-10-14 02:26:34 · answer #1 · answered by Uni 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know living with parents at times can be hard but PLEASE do not be so hard on yourself tell your Mum and Dad "I am sorry it was an accident I did not do it purposely is there any way it can be fixed? Can I help fix it with you?"
Running away in today's world is NOT safe, there are a lot of predators out there that can hurt you, PLEASE remember this will all pass and someday you will look back and be glad you did not run away. Do something that makes you happy to get your mind off it.
If you feel afraid to talk to your parents maybe if you wrote your parents a letter and said" I am sorry I never ment to brake the desk if there is a way I can help you both to fix it ? Let me know"
I am sure when your parents were your age they broke something to they are only human.
Best of luck
2007-10-14 02:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by Hmmm... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My parents used to yell and scream at me whenever I broke something by accident and I felt the same way you feel right now.
When your dad finds out, I guess you can expect to get yelled at some more and the best you can do right now is tell them you're really sorry. If you can, offer to pay for the damage with your own money.
In a few days, it won't seem as terrible as it feels right now.
2007-10-14 02:24:14 · answer #3 · answered by WilmaF 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey,
u did not break the computer desk on purpose, so i mean its not ur fault, maybe u can apologise to ur mom and say u didnt mean it. parents are some times in bad mood tats why they take it out on children, they r wrong, but sometimes they just cant stand it. please dont do anything silly, its just a computer desk. there are people with cancer and still wanna live. dont lock urself in ur room! just bcos of this fight, u not gonna see ur frens and watever again:) haha.. good luck k? sometimes ur life stinks, but some times its really good, give thanks in whatever u have.
i m not an adult if u think so, i m 12, hope my advice is useful
2007-10-14 02:24:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay. tell your mum you're really sorry and you didnt mean to do it. (tell her this when she isnt pissed off) and your mum will probably tell your dad about it. do expect punishment. that usually happens. but who knows, maybe not. and dont run away. that would really suck to live in a cardboard box with rats as your only company. maybe go to your local park and sit on the swings to relax or something. just tell them you never ment to break the desk, and youll pay for a new one if thats what they want.
hope you dont get in to much trouble!!
2007-10-14 02:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by pinky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun you are 14, your emotions are out of whack, just calm down!! Try talking to your mum about how you feel, apologize for accidentally breaking the desk!!
2007-10-14 02:24:02 · answer #6 · answered by Wendy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay calm, dnt lash out at yr parents (BAD MOVE), if yr angry, go for a walk, when u come back, apologise for breaking the table, try not to confront yr dad im he is an aggresive person.
Make sure that yr mom understands that u are sorry, and make sure u explain the suicumstances in which the table broke. try not to blame anyone
2007-10-14 02:26:24 · answer #7 · answered by damn_spiders 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im 13 i do clumsy things like that don't worry it'll calm down. Your luckyish id get hit really hard 4 tht! Parents always make kids feel crap!
2007-10-14 02:38:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do anything you will regret!! just think about the future when ur older and living by urself! i am 14 to and i have been yelling at my parents for about a week now. they r so annoying and bossy and i just want them 2 leave me alone! a desktop is replacable... don't freak 2 much ur parents will get over it... just let them calm down.
2007-10-14 02:24:40 · answer #9 · answered by Madison 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol, not to be cruel but get over it, something as simple as that is nothing to get worked up about, if it is an accident it was an accident, I advise you go for a walk and get some fresh air. It always helps.
2007-10-14 02:23:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋