Ok my baby's father, nice guy wants to b in our baby's life and im glad about that. Im gettin married and im moving to another state so how do i work the whole visitation thing out with him. We're both in the army but he just left for iraq. What do i do?
2007-10-13 19:10:36 · 2 answers · asked by lilwnba38 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
oh and also my finacee acts kinda jealous that im having a baby with this other man
2007-10-13 19:11:57 · update #1
ok all of us arre in the military, my fiance been in iraq for 6 mths already, My baby's father just left for iraqq this month and i go in april.
2007-10-13 19:36:14 · update #2
Well if your fiance' isn't mature enough to accept your child as he is, THEN DON'T MARRY HIM, for god sake!
As for visitation. I hope your baby's father doesn't expect to be able to have visitation while deployed in Iraq, so I suggest you work out a plan for visitation when he is located back in the US. Then at least when either you or he has an option as to what state you live in, then that person moves to be close to the other so that visitation is a possibility for your son.
This is a thing that BOTH parents have to work out together with a willing spirit.
Right now it's out of the question.
As for your fiance' I suggest you hold off on the wedding plans until he learns how to be a man. Otherwise you will end up just living with two kids instead of one.
2007-10-13 19:23:42 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who just left for Iraq? The baby's father or the fiance? You seem to have too many men in your life to keep straight.
Is this poor baby even born yet? The baby has a right to know his or her father and the father certainly has the right to be in the baby's life. It will be hard with you both in the military but it can be done.
2007-10-13 19:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by Patti C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋