My gf keeps talking about how hot some of the rock stars were at a concert we went to recently in Philadelphia . Should this upset me? I know she would be mad if I talked about how hot a supermodel was.
2007-10-13 18:36:00 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why should it upset you? If it doesn't upset you then I think you are normal. Sounds like the thing that is upsetting you is her double standard (that she's allowed to but you aren't).
Maybe she just feels close to you and is speaking openly with you like she would with her girlfriends?
2007-10-13 18:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by violet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um dude. Why on earth should this upset you? any body with a brain is going to find other people attractive. Its human nature. The next time she says that you should talk about how gorgeous a supermodel is or something like that. If she gets offended dump her a s s on principal.
2007-10-14 01:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by Funkyo K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as it's talk and not acting upon it, no harm done. Now if she was actively trying to get near them, then yes, be upset. Just remember they're as obtainable to her as supermodels are to you.
Imagine being MY boyfriend... I actually HAVE dated rock stars. However, they're just PEOPLE, and believe it or not more insecure than a "normal" guy like you, and insecurity is not a sexy thing!
2007-10-14 01:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by dollmaker_extraordinaire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her about it and point out how she would feel if you told her about those supermodels. I learned to just get over it because come on, is she ever going to have a chance with someone like that? Lol I think not.
2007-10-14 01:39:31 · answer #4 · answered by Ro-Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, i'll bet you think some actress or model or rock star is hot too. Why are you whining so much? I mean it's not like she doesn't like the way you look, she's with you, she goes out in public with you. Rock stars just have a tendency to be ogled, get over it.
2007-10-14 01:44:28 · answer #5 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, then everybody can say someone outside of a relationshi is attractive. You can look , but can't touch. So if that's how it is then you should be fine. if you say someting about a supermodel and she gets mad . Just tell her that's unfair , because she talked about how hot rockstars in front of you.
2007-10-14 01:39:49 · answer #6 · answered by rknrollcrzygirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So what? is she famous? is she going to ever meet the people? Why would she get mad if you thought someone you will never meet in your life was hot? You two are way to over dramatic. Lemme guess. You get your jeans out of the girl section . . .
2007-10-14 01:40:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you two are human, and just because you are together doesn't mean that you aren't going to find other people attractive. Don't let your insecurities get in the way of your relationship. Just remember, you'd rather have her telling you that then hiding it....
2007-10-14 01:39:27 · answer #8 · answered by Maria 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip, an insecure guy is not attractive trust me! It's not like she cheated, now if she has cheated on you in the past I'd say its different but you didn't mention it so it sounds like your just not happy with yourself
2007-10-14 01:38:50 · answer #9 · answered by SphinxEyez999 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She aint gone get none of those rock stars any ways so why are you worried.I don't get why she would want one there all a bunch of pill popping,alcoholic,coke sniffing junkies anyways with no stability. Go tell her azz to go watch the news or read a darn book.
2007-10-14 01:41:17 · answer #10 · answered by melissa_61101 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋