I met this guy over a year ago, online, not like myspace or anything, we weren't looking for dating, but we ended up "falling in love." We're kinda been together for a few months now, and we talk every day, it's sad cuz he's treated me the best out of every guy i've dated, and i really wanna be with him, when i'm 18 i plan to go to college over where he lives, and this winterbreak i get to visit him for the first time, do you think i should continue this, or is it a waste of my time?
2007-10-13 17:42:31 · 14 answers · asked by La Princesa de Francisco 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all ask yourself these questions:
Do i want to decide where i go to collage on a boy i have never met?
Will a long distance relationship work?
Do I have a future with him
I would say don't go to collage just because of a relationship that isn't very serious. If you end up liking this boy in person and decide on a long distance relationship get the same cell phone plan so that you can always call him when he can talk to you...so you'll never have to say "I cant talk right now my minutes aren't free."
Good luck, i hope this advice was useful.
2007-10-13 17:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue! I met the love of my life online too! Definitely worth finding out and seeing.
2007-10-14 00:48:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should meet him and see if he really is the person you think he is. Then if it all works out continue with your plan of starting a relationship. But dont get your hopes up to high yet , maybe hes not as great as you think.
2007-10-14 00:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ MISS YELLOW DIAMOND★☺♀ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out what it's going to be like in real life, either it will be better than over the internet, or it won't measure up out there in the real world. The only way to find out is to get to know each other face to face. Follow your heart : )
2007-10-14 00:49:02 · answer #4 · answered by violet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and find out..but online relationship, never worked for me..but unless if you get the chance to be together more often, i guess it will work.. i met my bf online but we lived in the same city and we see each other often and we found ways to make our relationship work. we've been together for almost 3years now and we're having a baby soon.
2007-10-14 00:47:22 · answer #5 · answered by chix_charmedk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry only you can answer that ---- if you have genuine feelings for him then by all means meet him (safely) and see what happens --- if all goes well then there may be a future --- why give up when there is no reason to??? and if you give up so easily now what does that mean for future relationships??? if you hit a rocky patch do you just bail out or work it out?? ----- best wishes
2007-10-14 00:50:32 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always good Online, for making love you must know the person.
2007-10-14 00:49:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really love this guy and want to be with him then continue it if u dont then end it but its all up to u not anybody eles so dont ask ppl just ask ur self this do u really love him??
2007-10-14 00:46:48 · answer #8 · answered by nigga mofo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet him first and see whats its like to be with him, i hope i dont have to tell all the things you should do and know beofore meeting him and that you will be safe.
2007-10-14 00:50:33 · answer #9 · answered by spayhappy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be careful of some male friends
2007-10-14 00:50:30 · answer #10 · answered by D.Wade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋