guys? Any input? do you only like a girl for their looks. Be honest....im just wondering
If not then why?
If so then why?
Basically, answer yes or no, then explain why :)
Thanks in advance
2007-10-13 17:18:07 · 21 answers · asked by Jessica M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Character is my primary criterion. Physical ugliness is difficult to get past. Obesity is bad, too. But it doesn't matter how good she looks if she's a b----, a psycho, or a feminist. I'll take a plain jane Abigail over a bombshell Jezebel, no contest. -yk
(Abigail was Nabal's wife who risked his life for him even though he was a good-for-nothing drunk. Jezebel was the manipulative, murderous Queen of Israel. I'll bet those dogs died of nausea before sunrise.)
2007-10-13 17:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by Yaakov 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. But i know most guys must be attracted to have a relationship at all and also some guys will like a girl based on looks...if that is the case the relationship won't last. Looks matter but they aren't everything.
2007-10-14 00:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by D Green 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
im not that great at taking a stand in arguments; i see things in both perspectives.
i am attracted to women because of their looks, that causes immediate attraction, i like to keep it that way most of the time because when i talk to them and theyre not my type ---> the attraction is immediately gone as quick as it began. when you like a girl on an intellectual/emotional level, it lasts for so much longer and you can become friends if not something more intimate. but i usual am into nice to pretty looking girls who are really funny, smart, and/or awesome all around
basically the relationships based on looks last for one night to a couple weeks while relationships where you want to give to her last for months if not years
2007-10-14 00:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by ceesteris 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I do go for looks it's a little different for me. I like a pretty girl but there are plenty of girls I've thought were attractive but I just didn't see myself with them. I recently met a girl who is attractive, but more than that she's smart, she makes me laugh (big one, I love her sense of humor especially the Borat voice) and she is caring. Everyone is different but try to find out what makes him laugh or if you've hung out a little bit a great one would be to offer to cook for him.
2007-10-14 00:30:22 · answer #4 · answered by silverback88 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, i think that the initial attraction is based on looks, but it is not everything. i will give you an example from my own life...im 21...weh i was in college, there was this girl, she looked kinda bookish and not very social and she was wearing sweats all the time. one day we got to talking adn then we started to take a lot of classes together...as i got to know her more, i started to really fall for her. unfortunatley for me she said no when i asked her out. a lot of my guy friends were like she was kinda cute but she wasnt like real hot or anything, but that didnt matter to me, to me she looked like a supermodel, so you can see by my friends reaction that they judged her at first by looks alone, but i didnt care if he didnt have the body of a supermodel...i really liked her and was able to look past her physical flaws. so, i hope my little story shed some light on how thgs work...for me anyway, everyoe is differnt.
2007-10-14 00:28:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and No
Yes - Especially when its been a while and I'm looking to boost my self esteem.
No - Overall, I rarely date girls JUST for their looks. But it does play a role in wether or not I will date them. They can be the perfect girl in everything, but ifshe doesn't look atleast somewhat decent, then no way in hell. It plays a role, just like how girls decide on guys.
Hope this helps, and btw, we are not all shallow!
2007-10-14 00:24:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well wouldn't it be a yes and no???
even though im not a guy, cmon! i know guys won't go out with a girl they dont find attractive both physical looks and personalities. i think it would be the same for us girls too.
but, you know, it's different with everyone, so maybe there are some guys out there who don't care about looks! you may never know!
2007-10-14 00:28:39 · answer #7 · answered by Arikashikari_Peace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...it does catch the eye but if she is not easy going and sweet...it does not matter how good looking a girl is....I would rather date an average looking person with a great personality
2007-10-14 00:21:43 · answer #8 · answered by loofa36 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.
I would hate to have a relationship where the only pleasure I got was from staring at her. For me, friendship is a HUGE part of a relationship - I need to be able to have good conversations and such with my significant other.
2007-10-14 00:26:04 · answer #9 · answered by smokeorfire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can say that I do go for a girls looks. But when it comes down to those whom I was able to truly share my heart with, looks just seemed to fade away while beauty remained.
2007-10-14 00:22:22 · answer #10 · answered by Eric N 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋