If you know what I mean. He is so hot
I already bought lingery. Anything else
2007-10-13 15:23:21 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 13 just in case ur wondering
2007-10-13 15:24:39 · update #1
You aren't ready. Buying such clothes doesn't make you ready. You're gaging this guy by his looks and that just proves you're too immature to handle it. It sounds like you haven't even been dating long or know much about each other. You are in no way, shape or form ready for this huge step.
2007-10-13 15:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by Rockit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you think this guy asking you out and buying lingerie means or makes you ready just shows you don't what you are doing.You do not become ready for a --no make that the most important step--in your life because the guy is hot.You are only 13,barely out of diapers yourself, and you think you are ready for that huge step.I would agree with you and encourage you on if you do the following things first:1) tell your parents what you plan to do and with whom2)ask the guy what he would do if something went wrong like you get pregnant3) ask him if he is ready to marry you, get a job, and take care of you and your children 4) tell him to also tell his parents what he has in mind to do with you and find out how they feel about it .If everything works out in your favor---that is your parents are happy about your plans and give you both their blessings, and he says yes to everything question,then I would say you can go on with your plans.But you have to do all the things I asked from 1-4 above.
2007-10-13 22:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, if you can't spell lingerie, you ain't ready. You're 13. Keep your swooning hormones in check and wait it out a while. Your hormones are telling you that you're a woman! But you aren't. You're just barely a teenager without the means or emotions to handle a pregnancy. Keep your legs crossed a few more years and grow up. It'll still be there and you'll be a lot more prepared to decide who to give it to. Good luck, sweetie. If you don't take my advice, I hope you will go with something similar!
2007-10-13 22:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by rb29440 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DON'T think your ready at 13...that is WAY too early b/c there is always a chance you could get pregnant and you prolly are JUST starting to have fun...If he respects you he will wait for you...Haven't u ever seen Bring It On All Or Nothing?? where Hayden Pannitierre says to that guy and how he's been waitin since she was 12? Make your first time special...BUT since you think you are SOOO ready and everything, buy condoms...and don't double them up if you think that would be a good idea b/c that makes them fall off easier and condoms DO break...
Just be smart about this..You just became a Teen..
2007-10-13 22:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, i lost my virginity at 13 and im 24 now. I regret it. Also, i have 2 kids now cuz i chose not to be very responsible and 'thought' i was in love. Life is damn hard now with all my responsibilities and i REALLY wish i would have waited. If you've been in a relationship for at least a couple years with someone who is also a virgin and you guys have some chemistry going, then maybe....maybe you're ready but dont just do it with someone youve been dating for a bit. Its not worth it and wont mean anything in the long run. Virginity is somehting you just cant get back...
2007-10-13 22:33:25 · answer #5 · answered by Chelsea 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
okay Why are you ready? He's not even ready! You don't need to take my advice but just at least listen to it, Sex is not something you do simply because your hormones are going crazy. Which i know, you're 13 they're going nuts! Sex can be the most amazing thing you'll ever experience if it's with the right person. Take me for instance, I was 19 and on a beach at night with a guy i dated for 3 years and was totally in love with. That meant a lot to me and it taught me that my body is something that can allow me to experience all types of emotions both physically and emotionally. Don't teach your body to respond to sex simply on stimuli, you need feelings behind it. Simply because he asked you out doesn't mean you should give in to temptation and take him to your twin bed in your parents house! If you're mature enough to have sex you should be mature enough to wait. If he loves you he wouldn't want to put you in a dangerous position of accidentally getting pregnant at 13. Sweetie you have all the time in the world to have sex, go to the mall with your girls, make out with him on the couch watching Anchorman, but 13 is a year for snow cones and Ferris wheels not sweaty awkward sex that you'll learn to hate yourself for in the end.
2007-10-13 22:33:51 · answer #6 · answered by Megster 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm 13 too. And I go to a school where a lot of kids also think they're ready. Well they get terrible reps, and people start to not talk to them & avoid them, and one girl got pregnant and had to be homeschooled for a long time,...you really want to be like one of them ?!
2007-10-13 22:32:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well wait a little longer cuz im 13 but at this age i know i feel like im ready and all but once i have to carry a baby around i will feel like an idiot so im waiting and waiting maybe talk to him more about it see what happens
2007-10-13 22:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by ♥↔♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You think you're ready because he's so hot?
Dude you're a fkn dumba**.
Hasn't your momma taught you anything?
I think this girl is kidding, trying to get a laugh out of answers.
Because, honestly. You'd have to be pretty dumb to believe you're ready @ 13 based on his appearance.
It's just sad and pathetic really. I feel sorry for you and hope someone helps you.
2007-10-13 22:28:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're 13, and yet you bought lingerie? I'm 13 too, but ain't that a little young?
2007-10-13 22:26:30 · answer #10 · answered by Darth Nihilus 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋