how many ppl(both girls and boys) think tht getting intamite b4 marriage is wrong? me and my friend were talking about her relationship w/her bf, and this struck our minds! plz and thnx
2007-10-13 14:28:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont think it is wrong i think you should wait till you get the relationship going good and establish a friendship if you were not friends before that way your relationship is not revolving around sex but why would you want to marry someone with out knowing everything about them including sexually
2007-10-13 14:32:45 · answer #1 · answered by can only give advice 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i definitely think that intimacy is important in any relationship. dont get me wrong tho. sleeping around isnt what im talking about. i feel like if you are two mature people that truly have a deep connection/love eachother.....sex is a beautiful thing. and i also feel that there is a difference between lustful sex. and making love. the first time i ever had sex i thought it was supposed to be this great thing but really it sucked. then me and my boyfriend of 3 years now had sex about a year ago and it really was the most amazing thing in my life. you can tell when some one really loves you and is putting their heart into it. its so much better when the two people love each other. but i definitely do not disapprove of sex before marriage.
2007-10-13 21:33:48 · answer #2 · answered by Smilllllleeeee 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you look at history, every society has the institution in which men and women pair off and live together.
This institution is called "marriage".
Whether they **** beforehand is not very important or really anyone's business.
2007-10-13 22:24:26 · answer #3 · answered by Clueless Dick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always think of it as wrong, this is the way I was raised. I would hate to have to tell people that I'm getting married just because she is pregnant
2007-10-13 22:18:20 · answer #4 · answered by 144289 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i don't have a problem with it cuz me and my guy have been dating for three years and five months. we met in middle school and we are juniors now so i know hin like the back of my hand. therefore i can trust him and he respects me so i don't regret anything we do even though we are not married. I have never loved anyone like i love him. I think that sex before marriage is ok if a person is responsible and mature enough to deal with all the things that come with it.
2007-10-13 21:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by Avangelis 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Have you ever heard of trying the product before you buy it? What should happen if you don't click sexually? I don't think its wrong. People just seem to be prudish. Dude this isn't the dark ages where you had to wait until you were married to have sex.
2007-10-13 21:33:11 · answer #6 · answered by jazmineflower2004 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it really depends if ur ready im 17 so i would probaly wait like 2 years to talk about that with my boyfriend because were fine how we are
2007-10-13 22:24:37 · answer #7 · answered by kentuckycutie10@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of ppl think its wrong..other ppl with no morals dont see any thing wrong with it..it is strictly up to the individual
2007-10-13 21:36:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think its just like buying a car you have to take it for a test drive before you buy.
2007-10-13 21:32:28 · answer #9 · answered by Aloha_Ann 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
just go for it , marriage is a waste of time, it's the death of any relationship
2007-10-13 21:36:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋