My ex girlfriend got angry with me twice because I do not answer the phone immediately when she calls, and I do not promptly call her back after she leaves a message. We broke up over one & half year ago, and we have a child together and she moved out of state, and I have my child.
She mentioned that when I call, that whatever she is doing she answers my phone calls and immediately reply to any message that i leave. And she feels, when she calls that I just watch my phone caller i.d. & ignore the call & let it go straight to voice mail. (At times I am busy).
I feel that we are not together anymore, and I am not obligated to answer her calls immediately and reply back to any of her messages. If the message she leaves is important I get back to her immediately, otherwise I don't bother responding to her.
I believe she has someone else in her life and I am happily dating.
My question is why is she acting that way, especially she is the one that broke off the relationship.
2007-10-13 13:58:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She feels like she cares about you more than you care about her and that makes her feel like she "lost."
2007-10-13 14:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by sandstone901 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she feels that since you have custody of ya'lls child that she still has some kind of control over you. I don't see a problem as long as you answer any calls or messages that pertain to your child. Good luck.
2007-10-13 14:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by cris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it almost seems to me like she still wants you. I mean i dont get to my phone often i only do when its in my hand ( rarely ) and i told my bf it might take me a while to respond back and hes accepted that.
Sometimes i dnt respond back if im just about to see them
2007-10-13 14:03:06 · answer #3 · answered by CupCake 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because despite her breaking it off, she stil wants to be important in your life. Let her be angry. She's dropped you.
2007-10-13 14:02:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
An insecure, depressed, control freak?
2007-10-13 14:03:49 · answer #5 · answered by sharon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude!!She wants you back it sounds like to me!!Tell her you cant always drop everything your doing to argue and "chat".Tell her youll always try to call her back but sometimes you cant.She should understand!!Hope I helped!!
2007-10-13 14:04:03 · answer #6 · answered by Holly J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her this, " Not happy about that, get over it". You owe her no explanation and tell her that is why you pay for voicemail.
2007-10-13 14:11:28 · answer #7 · answered by spencer4571 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She feels she should still have some control or influence over you. You obviously disagree............and I agree with you.
2007-10-13 14:02:43 · answer #8 · answered by artistagent116 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is jealous that you are happy without her.Another is that she is unhappy and wants to get back with you or she crazy.
2007-10-13 14:10:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did she dump you. or give you the option of leaving you or change.. because she probably just wanted you to change.
2007-10-13 14:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by prissychrissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋