help i like a boy he has a gf
2007-10-13 13:31:38 · 75 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't. Nothing good can ever come of that, especially if you're chasing the guy and he finds out you purposely broke him and his girl up. Grow up and enjoy your youth. It's a recipe for disaster to try to come between two people! Ever heard of karma???
2007-10-13 13:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Joshua's~♥~Girl♫ 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Just remember that a guy who leaves a girl for you will almost certainly leave you for the next girl who comes along. And trying to keep a guy like that is pure hell.
Some girls try to get guys away from other girls because it makes them feel like they must be hot if they can do that, or the girl thinks the guy must really love her if he will leave someone else for her.
That is stinkin' thinkin' and will only cause you and a lot of other people heartache if you keep on with it. The right guy will be trustworthy, not somebody who can be manipulated by some girl who thinks it is all a game. Trust in yourself; the right guy WILL think you're hot! The rest don't matter.
2007-10-13 13:42:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best answer w/o being mean is "wait it out." They will probably break up sometime. Its not right to break up a boy and his girl, would you want someone to do that to you if you were going out with him? Its not that bad to flirt with him though. And if he breaks up with his gal and asks you out, keep his exes feeling first and tell him not right now. But that doesnt mean never, it just means for him to relax and not make you seem like the rebound girl. Hope I helped!
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2007-10-13 13:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't actively try to break a happy couple up just to take the pieces for yourself
If he would leave her like that for you, then he will leave you the same way. Same goes for if he would cheat on her with you...
Maybe it is better to be his friend rather than nothing at all. If the relationship fizzles on it's own you can maybe start something new...
Just remember, talking **** about his girl isn't the way to be his friend...
2007-10-13 13:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by Carolyn H 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
DO ONTO OTHERS... Would you want someone to break you up if you were going out with the boy?
You don't. And, think about it: if he was willing to dump a girl really quick and then go to you, what makes you think he won't dump you and go to another?
Don't you watch soap operas? This type of behavior will only result with it flying in your face. You can't manipulate someone into going out with you and have much success. And, if you are at least temporarily successful, it is generally short lived and will earn you a pretty bad reputation.
Keep liking the boy, and if the boy ends up ending the relationship with the girl, then you can try to get him to go out with you.
2007-10-13 13:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by Mark V 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Like many instances there are a number of extraordinary approaches of watching at matters. Why could you be "completely satisfied" when you consider that he "did it for you". You will now get a rep for stealing others' b/fs, and feature a b/f that would unload you as quickly as a few "acquaintance" catches his eye. One of the characteristics required for an enduring courting is loyalty. Your quickly-to-be- b/f appears to be missing in that division, so in a 12 months it maybe you making a song the blues as he dances off into the sundown with an additional lady.
2016-09-05 08:13:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you like it if someone tried to do that to you?????
You don't do that if you are a classy and respectable young lady. Leave them alone. Do not go around either of them. You won't get anyone when you have an attitude like that.
Be respectful and go out with your friends and family. Volunteer. Do other things to get your mind off of this boy. Remember that what goes around comes around. You do this, and someone will do it to you.
Do unto others as you would have done to you.
2007-10-13 13:36:57 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You stop being a home wrecker and find an AVAILABLE man.
What if you were his gf and some whore was on here asking us how to break yall up? You'd probably want to beat her *** wouldnt you?
Yeah, I thought so. Grow up and try an adult relationship. (Assuming you arent a 12 year old...which it kinda sounds like you are)
2007-10-13 13:35:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
which she obviously does.
this happened to a mate of mine. It isn't the prettiest thing to deal with. One; you just look like a stalker. two; that'll be in your reputation for YEARS. assuming you're as young as you sound, that isn't a good thing. Watch a teen movie, I'm sure you will find many similarities with the evil bitc.h in the movie who tries to do this and gets what she deserves.
If you had Patience, you'd find not many relationships in your age group last long at all.
It's a pitiful thing to do.
2007-10-13 13:45:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Why? Because Karma is a beyotch that's why. You do it, he finds out and your butt has a nasty reputation for the rest of your life.
There are lots of guys out there. Leave him alone and find someone who wants to be with you. He obviously doesn't or he'd have dumped his gf himself by now.
2007-10-13 13:36:22 · answer #10 · answered by GeriGeri 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hope you aren't serious about breaking them up. Don't you know "what you give is what you get" and "what goes around comes around." That would be a bad thing to do and I would say just wait a while and they'll probably break up on their OWN !!!
2007-10-13 13:35:59 · answer #11 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋