If you came from a wealthy family, you received nice cars, fully paid education, housing, and all other needs, why would it cause a lack of confidence and insecurity later in life?
2007-10-13 13:29:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
your question is your answer
2007-10-13 13:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 21:30:14 · answer #2 · answered by suero 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you've never had to earn things for yourself. Not only will that cause you to be spoiled, but spoiled children grow into spoiled adults, and spoiled adults don't appreciate the things they have, even when they do earn them, because they haven't been taught the value of a dollar. And therefore you would have a lack of confidence becuase you wouldn't have to depend on yourself--mommy and daddy would always be there. People who haven't had that kind of support to lean on trust themselves so much more because they know if they don't do things for themselves it won't get done at all.
2007-10-13 13:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by still waiting 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because they have not learn how to do things for themselves. When they have to get out into the real world and get a job they have no idea how to take direction or constructive criticism. They also bounce from job to job because they have a poor work ethic. It is not only wealthy families. I have seen kids from middle class families with the same problems. Their parents cater to their every whim and they expect others to do so when they "Grow up".
2007-10-13 13:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think children need the room to make mistakes. Mistakes are the stepping stones of learning. Over-controlling makes less room for mistakes. Spoiling a child doesn't give them the opportunity to feel like they've acheived something. If everything is handed to them, they won't get the chance to work hard and save their money to buy something they've always wanted, then feel like they achieved their goal. Confidence and security, I think is something that is built by doing things for yourself...knowing that you have it in you to support yourself and have the attitude of "I can do it".
2007-10-13 13:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm spoiled, I mean I'm not spoiled, spoiled like say Paris Hilton but I'm an only child my mom just like's to spoil me cause she resents her mother for never getting her things and spending it in ****. I'm an only child. Of course we do make deals like I have to have good grades, and TOLERATE my dad if I want a Wii. Stuff like that. But that doesn't make me a bad person. I'm not spoiled rotten though. And I actually has a lot of confidence. I know what I want in life and I'm going for it. My mom just wants me to be happy in life and supports whatever decision I make. I think that's how she spoils me the most - she spoils me with her support. And I'm afraid of failure but that's not because I'm spoiled it's just something I hate. I could say more but I gotta go. So see ya later.
xoxo,
blondie.
2007-10-14 05:33:37 · answer #6 · answered by blonddiva999 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the kid os mostly treated like a prince that he will nevfer have to work.....and alsow the lak of confidence its becous he doesnt know how to work and he i not confident in himself that he can do things write that also come from parents that do everything for their child and that wen the child gets something bad the parents do it for him that will make the child feel like a good for nothing and having no inner confidense will be the answer......
2007-10-17 12:53:27 · answer #7 · answered by santino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically because they're afraid to let their parents down by failing. They dream to do something better than their parents. But may decide that maybe it's a feat too difficult to reach so they don't try. Or, some just want to live off their parents because they never did anything for themselves growing up and they're just lazy.
2007-10-13 13:42:11 · answer #8 · answered by Hello 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe because they are so used to being pampered and having everything done for them, they haven't had the chance to learn how to do things for themselves in the real world. Reality is an alien concept. :-/
2007-10-13 13:53:30 · answer #9 · answered by Butterscotch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said it yourself "over-controlling parents" when someone else controls everything the lessons are lost there is no finer distinction...the good thing is it is never to late to learn
2007-10-13 15:39:37 · answer #10 · answered by only1sol2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋