There is this guy who sits behind me in english. This is my first year having classes with him. He talks to me quite often, he looks me in the eyes, and sometimes we catch eachother just looking into eachothers eyes for a couple of seconds. He has complimented my art work, and asked me to come see his band. He always teases me, and is kind to me.
But just recently, I have found out that he has a girlfriend, and that they are fighting. I believe they have just ended the relationship.
Has he been flirting with me? I think they ended their relationship before he started talking to me... But I am not sure... Does he like me? Or am I just another girl in his class..?
2007-10-13 13:25:46 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He looks you in the eye????? Oh yeah he is ready to propose LOL hahahahahaha
2007-10-13 13:29:02 · answer #1 · answered by Larry The Don ® 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
He may not know whether he likes you or not right now. Break ups usually leave people quite confused and sad. Give him a little time (a month) If things heat up between him and you you will have your answer. If not, maybe you could suggest doing something together. Don't make it a date yet, though. Wait and see how things turn out. Whatever you do, don't push too hard. I can see you like him a lot, but men like to be the pursuers for the most part. On the other hand, after just getting over one girl he may not have the confidence to try to get things started with another so a gentle nudge from you can't hurt.
2007-10-13 13:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he's flirting, but you have to keep this in mind since you seem to only know him through that class and not outside of school.
1) He could be a player, and flirts with everyone like that
2) If he has been flirting with you while he was dating someone else, who's to say he won't do that to other girls while he's dating (assuming he was) you?
What I would do is get to know him outside of school first, go see his band, ect. Maybe even ask around about what kinda guy he is (though you may get some rumors that aren't true, so don't totally lean on what others say). If you still like him after awhile, then go from there.
2007-10-13 13:32:00 · answer #3 · answered by Be Still and know He's God 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like he has tried to indicate interest in you. If you aren't totally sure about his girlfriend, or ex-girlfriend, casually bring it up. Ask him something like, "so how are you and your girlfriend doing," or "is your girlfriend in any of your classes?" If he then makes it obvious to you that he is completely single go watch him play with his band, or go some places casual and just talk about things that you are comfortable with. But when your with him you might want to make him notice that you like his company. Hopefully after that you guys could start to really get to know each other. And who knows? Maybe he really likes you. You will never know until you try it out.
2007-10-13 13:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but thats most young peoples nature (including me)
Yes im almost sure
No if that was true he wouldn't have done some of those things
but wait to ask him cuz u dont want to be the rebound girl
Remember even though we gave you our opinions the only person who knows the actual answer is him so what i would do is be friends for about a month then wait if he doesnt ask you ask him (unless your shy)
2007-10-13 13:30:34 · answer #5 · answered by ♥cutie♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though he is interested in you, but don't pounce. Give him some space, because you don't want to be his rebound girl. After a while, if he's still single, see if he still acts that way toward you. If he does, then go see his band play, strike up some conversation, and tell him how you feel. Flirting isn't commitment, just remember that.
2007-10-13 13:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by LunaRossa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE LIKES YOU!, Im a bloke and when i was in school i acted exactly the same way as he does around you, in the end we went out for 1 year, good luck try and go and see him play with his band try and do more out-of school stuff with him, build a relationship with him from outside school then you two have some thing different than the others in your class/year.
good luck!
2007-10-13 13:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by pk o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best answer I can give you is just stay as a friend to him and play it by ear-------you don't want a girlfriend to think that you have been "possibly" flirting with her ex-while she was seeing him and that you could possibly be why they were fighting and broke up-Plus you do not want that on your consciensous.....you are so young and there are different guys in the sea where you might not have to worry if you were the cause of a breakup, if the guy is single--------so play it by ear and stay away from him as much as possible. its possible he likes you but do you really want to know--------right now........remember this saying------------if it was meant to be you will see him at some time or another but for right now--------enjoy life and keep busy with your girfriends,school..have fun-----
2007-10-13 13:44:19 · answer #8 · answered by lorr1941 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only he can really answer that question. I would only think about him as friends. You don't want to be a rebound person. Just be his friend. If he wants to talk, then let him. Don't be anymore than friends right now. Get to know him as friends, if he is single again. Friends first before dating. Honesty and communication is a good thing in any relationship.
2007-10-13 13:30:12 · answer #9 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he's flirting. But you have to understand that guys flirt A LOT. But there's a good chance that he might be open to a relationship with you.
2007-10-13 13:31:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This young man does seem interested in you.Since the two of you talk,tell him "i heard you and your girlfriend broke up"I'm sorry ,i know how it feels .I'm here for you if you want to talk,I'm a good listener,heres my # if you want to call and talk,hand him your #,make up a reason to walk away, Then walk away,If he is interested in you he will call and then everything else will fall in to place all on its own,if it is ment to.Good Luck. Blue eyes
2007-10-13 13:56:41 · answer #11 · answered by Blue eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋