i really like this guy & my friends all say we should go out! My friends also say that we touch each other alot (not like that but as in bumping into each other kind of kinding around).& the other day some1 asked me if we were going out but i told her no (sadly). Anyways so i really do want to ask him out but i don't know what he thinks of me or how he feels about me so idk what i should do so can some1 plz help me out!!! What should i do so i can find out what he thinks about me & if i should ask him out with out getting hurt myself!!!
2007-10-13 13:21:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
keep flirting with him. either ask your friends to ask who he likes, or the better way is...to ask him who he likes yourself. u should ask him if he would go out wtih (a bunch of random names) then say yourself.
2007-10-13 13:27:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't have to be your boyfriend for you guys to hang out. Why not just work on your friendship. Get to know him better, instead of flirtatious bumping and touching.
Do you know his favorite music artist? What is his Mom like? What are the things he likes to do? His favorite food? His favorite school subjects? Ones he hates? What is a happy childhood memory for him? Where does his family take vacations? What college does he want to go to?
You sound young, and I'm not trying to talk down to you so don't take this the wrong way. When you're young and you get involved in crush/love relationships you ALWAYS break up eventually and end up losing your friend who was once your boyfriend. If you maintain a healthy nonsexual friendship with him, when you're older you can develop that relationship into something more when you are ready.
Peace
2007-10-13 20:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by Aubrey C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually a guy asks a girl out, but it doesn't have to be that way. In any case, though, the asker is putting himself/herself in the position of being turned down. It is the way the game is played and is often difficult, but how else will you ever get anywhere? Take the chance and make up your mind you will not be hurt if he says "no." The only other way is to ask a mutual friend or his friend how he feels about you, but I am sure you have already tried that.
2007-10-13 20:27:11 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to take the risk and ask him. That is the only way that you will find out. Try to do it in a casual way though, that way if he tells you something that you may not want to hear, you can still protect your feelings.
2007-10-13 20:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him out, but subtly. Don't ask for some big date or anything. If he says no, it's really okay. Find another guy who like you more! Good luck!
2007-10-13 20:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask if hes ever going to ask you out take a chans as a guy i know guys like it when a girl just says they like him
2007-10-13 20:25:27 · answer #6 · answered by Nelson M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him out and if he says no then just move on and still be friends with him.
2007-10-13 20:24:18 · answer #7 · answered by AznCaucasian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u have the chance ask him. he will probably say yes. if he says no, just ignore and move on as a friendship.
2007-10-13 20:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by SagetMaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First dont care how others feel about it. If you like him, let him know before somebody else grabs him. take him somewhere and make mad love to him, blow his mind
2007-10-13 20:52:40 · answer #9 · answered by steak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him on date be the first act!!!!!
2007-10-13 20:24:34 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋