I told him I was about to head to the bar and he said thats where they were headed too.....should I not go now? He knows I love him but she does not know
2007-10-13 13:17:38 · 15 answers · asked by ilovecats 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she thinks we're just roomates...does not know we have sex sometimes.
2007-10-13 13:18:23 · update #1
My roomate is a guy and I am not so no I am not gay...3 some out of question, just the idea bothers me, and he moved into my house with me so you're right I wont be leaving...we have a rule that others dont come here...she waited in the car...we just talked about this last night when he went out with me but left with her...he know it hurts me...left him a note saying i cant figure out why he thinks i'm not good enough for a girlfriend
2007-10-13 13:34:20 · update #2
I know it's love...we've been friends 15 years...yes theres been sex but its occassional and not recently...we are together all the time so last time for me was his too.
2007-10-13 13:36:40 · update #3
Oh my goodness! I just added you to my list A FEW MINUTES AGO! I liked your answer to another person who needed advice... and thought, "Now, there's a smart girl." (I kid you not.)
Minutes later... I get an alert, click on it, and here you are... contemplating about your plans (and feelings) based on this JERK-OFF.
No, sweetie... you do what "you" wanna do... go where "you" wanna go... reGARDless of his inconsiderate behavior... BUT, listen to what everybody is answering you, babe. Stay away from predicaments like that. Love "you".
PS: I wish you lived near me... we'd BOTH go to the bar! I've got all kinds of male friends. Kind-hearted ones, sexy ones, humorous ones, fun ones, and best of all respectful ones. (Where y'at?)
~RosaInCali4nia if you wanna chat~
2007-10-13 14:17:21 · answer #1 · answered by Rose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he showed up with a girl so I guess he's just using you for sex because it's right there in his face, it's seems that your friend with benefits, he obviously doesn't think of you as anything else or he wouldn't have brought his date home. Don't confuse sex with being in love my dear, the fact that you live with this guy and you have sex doen't mean anything obvioulsy. You say he knows how you feel about him, the fact that he showed up with this girl tells you that he's not really interested in you, he only wants to dive in. so he's having his cake and eating it too.
2007-10-13 20:30:58 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is using you in such a bad way, and you think he is interested in you. Wake up girl, you are making it too easy for him, find another place to live, I don't go to that bar with them, you will only feel worse.
2007-10-13 20:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by miki360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your main problem should be if you should go to the bar or not. I'd be more concerned with the fact that y'all are having sex and he knows you love him but he brings a date over...
2007-10-13 20:21:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
first let me say ouch. i know what that feels like. and it is not that easy to just forget and move out. it is always the same way that women end up putting too much into it and end up getting hurt. men think with lodgic, women think with emotions. it sucks but it s true.
2007-10-13 22:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by scooby91099 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely go and be sure to bring along a date of your own. If it is just a friend that your roommate does not know about, that's okay, but make sure you call it a "date" and make sure he is very attentive to you as if he were truly interested. I know this is game playing, but it should bring out any feelings your roommate may or may not know he has. If he seems okay with that then maybe the feeling is not mutual.
2007-10-13 20:23:38 · answer #6 · answered by Barbara E 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
"Having sex sometimes" isn't a good way to run a roommate relationship. Particularly if you are in love with him.
I doubt you will do it, but you should be looking for another place to live.
2007-10-13 20:22:30 · answer #7 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you said he knows your in love with him, well have you asked him what he thinks about it or how he feel's? you should. but i know it can be hard but are you really content sitting around while he dates? ya go with him because even though she's there it still has to be nice to spend time with him right?
2007-10-13 20:26:50 · answer #8 · answered by crazy_redhead_2007 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
forget about him, he's a jerk, havings ex with you and then going out with other women and probably having sex with them too, you deserve better than that, you deserve to be LOVED.
2007-10-13 20:22:40 · answer #9 · answered by hello_pr 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
yeah go to the bar and find a nice dude to make him jealous, its obvious that hes using you
2007-10-13 20:26:43 · answer #10 · answered by ssssss 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋