I wanna know the different feeling of normal sex vs. anal sex, i dont have a penis so i wouldnt know, as a female i definately DO NOT like anal.
I gave up my first time to him and in turn he actually perfered anal more...(doh!)
I was screaming in pain but he didnt stop, then I called him a weirdo in a jokingly manner and asked him why he liked butt sex more (i also said 'gay sex'..*sorry don't mean to offend anyone*), he laughed then explained this saying he might have a female butt fetish... but i think there's more to it. is it becos my butt hole is tighter? better sensation in the butt hole than normal sex..?
he is circumcised btw..don't know if it has anything to do with it, but yeah.
2007-10-13 09:14:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Studies have shown that "circumcised" men are more likely to engage in anal and oral sex, the tighter orifice gives them more feeling than the vagina can give. This helps them overcome the sensitivity they have lost to "circumcision". They are also more likely to engage in risky behavior with multiple partners than males with complete penises.
While it is wrong for him to ignore your pain, his preference for anal sex is his response to being mutilated.
2007-10-13 17:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by cut50yearsago 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, the fact that you were screaming in pain and he didn't stop is VERY WRONG! If he cared at all about your pleasure or you in general, he would have slowed down and done it right. Anal sex can be very pleasurable for a woman when done right, sometimes more pleasurable than vaginal sex.
Second of all, it sounds like this guy in particular has a control issues. However, you need to tell him that what he did was not pleasurable for you, and that you deserve to get what you want as well. Its all about communication when it comes to sex, speak up!
Oh, and to the 2nd answerer - the first answer is very correct. Anal sex is concidered "taboo" so men do love it when they can get it. I have been told that by men who like anal, so its true.
2007-10-13 09:22:37 · answer #2 · answered by ShaunaMae 2 · 9⤊ 1⤋
You should not be intimidated into participating in any sexual act that is unpleasant for you. Just say NO and stick to it. If he can't accept that, then dump the loser. Anyone who persists in a sex act when his partner is screaming in pain is guilty of rape. You shouldn't joke and go along. Forcing anyone is wrong, wrong, wrong. If he does this, he will probably also try to control you in other ways. Unless this is an isolated one-time incident in an otherwise wonderful relationship, you should get rid of him immediately. He has raped you, and you don't have to put up with it.
2007-10-14 08:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by Maple 7 · 10⤊ 3⤋
I'm with Vicky above on this one. The guy after is crude.
2007-10-13 09:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by dude 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i enjoy going in the back door but wont dream of hurting a girl wen entering her thats not enjoyment to her , dont do it if u dont enjoy . or get a vibrator and force it in his back door give him soom pain , maybe he will take more care next time , thats if there is a next time , as it hurt u, dont think there will be ,
2007-10-13 09:27:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 12⤊ 1⤋
Yeah it's tighter. Also maybe he feels more power when he knows it's him getting his way and you don't like it. I bet he's the kind of guy that likes shooting his load wherever it most offends you. haha Idk but yeah, it's def tighter.
2007-10-13 09:24:53 · answer #6 · answered by OkIgetit 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
It's because it is not supposed to be done, so it's more exciting.
2007-10-13 09:17:36 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 8⤊ 3⤋
maybe cuz your other hole is too big and used up so he likes the bum hole better. could be he is really small too and you are not satisfying cuz of it. or it could be he wants to hurt you. mainly it's cuz it's tighter usually but not always.
2007-10-13 09:19:10 · answer #8 · answered by flatfootfred 5 · 6⤊ 13⤋