Things are a lil rocky between my boyfriend and i and i want to do something extra specail for show him i care and love him and im here if he needs to talk ...?????????????? Something that will amaze him....????????
2007-10-13 08:44:43 · 32 answers · asked by R.I.P ANDY ♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cook him a nice dinner, or take him out and treat him to a nice restaurant meal. You will be able to talk over the meal.
2007-10-13 08:47:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Set up something super nice that you know both of you love to do. Depending on the weather and where you live, you could pack a lunch or a nice dinnner up and either go to the beach or go to a private little park where the view is amazing! hmmm like up in the mountains....buy him little things here and there that he really likes, such as candy, or if its something to do with his hobby, buy him his favorite cologne. Remember the day you guys met, and try to woo him that way, like what were you wearing, how did you smell, etc... There are so many intimate ways you can show him that you love and care for him, and that you are totally there for him and him only. Good luck:)
2007-10-13 08:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by R&R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, there is nothing generic that would do this. It has to be very specific to your relationship, something that reminds him of good times. You could also remind him of the bad times in the past and how you stood by him. Get him little momentos that remind him of a special memory. It is even better if it is something that only you two know about and it doesn't have to be sexual. Example:If your first date was at the movies, get him some small toy or memorabilia from that movie. Like if it was Finding Nemo, get him a little toy of his favorite character from it. Just remember it has to be something between the two of you, not something generic.
Something else is to leave little notes in places you know he will find them telling him you are thinking about him. i.e. his kitchen cabinet, his fridge, his sock drawer, under the remote, in his car. Also, actually tell him you are thinking of him. When he calls and says what's up, just say you were thinking of him and how much you love him. I am a guy, so I know this works. :)
2007-10-13 08:54:22 · answer #3 · answered by C C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you poll girls on this? It seems men could answer this question far better than a woman as we have the inside track on what we consider "extra special" or what we consider to show us that you care.
Throwing away the obvious sexual answer, men tend to appreciate actions more than words (although sometimes the right words can be equally as effective). For example, in my case, when a woman in my life does something to either enhance my life or make my life easier I feel like I am extra special in her eyes. It makes me feel more valued by her. Like if I have something causing a lot of stress in my life and she does something to reduce that stress. Does that make sense? Of course if that is too deep of a concept, doing something kinky in bed is always a good fall back for a man.
2007-10-13 08:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by ®PsychologyGuy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would find out what his favorite meal is cook it and either eat it at ur house or some place nice or u can just supprise him by going 2 his house with the food if u want u can even eat by candal light u know turn up the romance show him none of ur feelings for him have went away like the destinys child song cater to you . you need to cater to your man do it for him every once in a while not just when he turns cold and u will get a positive reaction good luck oh and if u want u could be his disert
2007-10-13 08:52:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the way to a man's heart is through his stomach! Invite him over for a romantic home cooked dinner for just the two of you. Dim the lights and light some candles and make something for dessert also. Something fancy with chocolate. I know if my boyfriend did that for me I would just melt. But you know, im not that lucky. Well good luck to the two of you!
2007-10-13 08:50:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm kind of shy and the talking side of me is not that good even tho i'm a good listener i don't know about you but i would write him a poem and a letter to let him know how i feel and show him a relly care about the relationship and than more than a girlfriend i will be his confident.
2007-10-13 08:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by pepe t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do for him is tell him what you told us. Tell him you hate it when hes (insert bad feeling here) and you want to make it better and you'll do what ever you can. Let him know that you really are here for him and that you love him. A simple thing you can do is just leave him a a note saying that...
good luck!
2007-10-13 08:53:43 · answer #8 · answered by randomsurfchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my husband has been buying me flowers when we argue or when he is trying to say something and I was asking the same question u are, what can I do? well just get a nice hotel room for a weekend and cook or order his fav. food take the phone out leave cell phones or turn them off unplug the t.v and he is all yours That should be plenty of time to talk.
If u have to do all of that for him to know u care, then evaluate the relationship and just make sure its worth doing b/c it may be easier to just let go.
2007-10-13 08:53:21 · answer #9 · answered by leg1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress really sexily for him or serve him a dinner wearing only sussies and a small apron with a bow tie. Open the win, light the candles, lock the door and ravish him. IT WORKS FOR SURE. Try it.
2007-10-13 08:48:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋