I think that the last guy I was with was ashamed of me.I am 5'2 and about 105 pounds, a size 1 or 2. He was about 6'. How can I look more alluring and more adult?What can I change?
2007-10-13 08:40:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Watch that show "What to wear" but honestly, if you feel a guy is not feeling right about you---dump him. I guarantee you , you are alright. This stuff about you fitting in is bologny. Meet men where your heart is. What are your passions? A relationship should be about you, hon. If a guy doesn't make you feel special, heck I'd say bye, this isn't working. Get that lovin feeling or move on. Some times you have to go thru alot of dates. I'd pray about it, but its not you.
2007-10-13 08:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you look for a beauty salon in your city that does
make overs? Someone that can take you in, and do your hair
and makeup and give you a total glamour glow? Then steer
you in the right direction for the shop that will find just the
right outfit to make you shine. Or at least, give you advice on
what things would look great on your frame.
Once you have made a transformation, this new look will
inspire you to be a whole new you as well. It will take time to
grow on you to let your inner beauty shine. Then you will have
confidence that you lack now, and also more self respect.
Sometimes we allow ourselves to fall into a slump, both out-
wardly and inward. So changing the way you look, will affect
the way you feel about yourself and life in general.
If I were you, if you are not comfortable being with taller
people, then look for guys in the 5'8" range, that will bring
them down to you a bit more. There are guys who are short
looking for short girls, but find only taller ones, or so I hear.
You could also start wearing a more stacked heel or boots
to step you up a bit taller too. There are ways to improve
any situation, if you just think about them harder.
Good luck and success in the years ahead.
2007-10-13 08:58:04 · answer #2 · answered by Lynn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing is, I dont know what your wearing, and what you might be acting like in front of these men, but if your arent already doing: try wearing less revealing clothes, you might be showing to much cleavage, or if its opposite then go in the other direction, try wearing casual colors, nothing load, maybe assertiveness is something you might practice in the mirror, be assertive, try not to be so cute, know what you are talking about dont make them feel like your not sure of yourself, try some tech's in the mirror, Do you take yourself seriously? Tell yourself positive things, I look good today, Im pretty, Im a good person, Size is nothing Just be confident, it will take practice, surrond yourself with positive people, no negativity. Get it out of you life, Good luck I hope this helps
2007-10-13 08:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by Sis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be your self. join clubs that u'r interted in this should help u'r confidence and help u find that guy:). tell u'r self "i look beautiful" every day. u dont need 2 change the way u look. just look how u'r confortable like......if u like wearin a clown costem 2 a date do it(they probz wouldn't take u seriosly that way tho lol. if a guy is ashamed of u he isn't worth it
2007-10-13 08:52:15 · answer #4 · answered by xxxxxtenthousandtearsxxxxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt change yourself to make guys like you..
if your looking for higher self esteem get your hair done, go to a nail salon and get a maicure, pedicure and by a new wardrobe and you will feel a lot better.
2007-10-13 08:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change.
Your ex partner (I assume) was only looking on the outside and not so much on the inside.
If you have a kind heart, pure mind, and sweet smile, you've got nothing to worry about except how nice you are. :)
Looks aren't everything.
2007-10-13 08:47:39 · answer #6 · answered by Abby Corneto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
105 pounds?!?! i would love to be you. just be confident in yourself. be yourself and you shouldnt be the one changing. hope this helps and good luck!
2007-10-13 08:44:12 · answer #7 · answered by Kiki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT TO BE RUDE-BUT ARE YOU CRAZY? 40+ YRS. OLD AND YOU HAVE KEPT YOUR WEIGHT IN CONTROL. I'M A 55 YEAR OLD GUY AND I THINK YOU SHOULD BE PROUD OF YOURSELF AND JUST MOVE ON TO PEOPLE THAT CAN UNDERSTAND AND LOVE YOU FOR YOU!
CHUCK
2007-10-13 08:54:29 · answer #8 · answered by CHUCK S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change anything just be comfortable with yourself and be yourself...There is nothing wrong with you!!!
2007-10-13 08:46:00 · answer #9 · answered by Confused 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress sexy
2007-10-13 08:44:55 · answer #10 · answered by master 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋