Girls, do you mind being complimented on your boobs?

Question

I mean, if I meet you in a club or party and you have a really sweet set, would you take offense if I told you?

And girls, please be mature. If you expose your breasts and a guy tells you that they look good, why would you slap him? The body is a work of art, and occasionally you come across a masterpiece, or at least a really good imitation. I just see it as common courtesy to extend the well-earned compliment.

Answer 1

I have never met a woman who wanted to be complimented, as it came across as rather smutty and crass

Answer 2

Sir,
I think there are other ways to show your appreciation for a woman's body. Granted, some women 'let it all hang out' and that about all they hope a man will see. If that's the type of girl you're looking for, it won't much matter what you say or do. But if you meet a girl/lady that is dressed nice, carries herself well,and is polite, I would not address her 'boobs'. She knows what she looks like - she wants to look good! That kind of girl/lady is looking for something more mature in a man. Trust me, she gets plenty of comments that you want to hand out. It gets very old. Unfortunately, a single person has few choices of where to go and how to meet good people. But just because they go to a club or party and look 'hot' doesn't mean they're wanting to be hit on by someone that can only think with their zipper. Give it some thought. Sex is cheap.... a relationship is not.

Answer 3

Take a real man's advice: For the correct way to do this, see the movie "Animal House". At the toga party Eric Stratton says to Flounder's girlfriend, "Wow, what a great dress." Right in front of the dude. Now that's class!
It takes pluck to do this, but girls like pluck (look it up, it's a good noun). You'll probably have to try it a few different ways to find the approach that works for you, but once you do, you'll find it's an easy way to get a conversation going in the direction you want it to.
Of course, each lady is going to respond differently, and it helps if you're the kind of guy women want to hear this from; if you're not you'll find out soon enough.
I'll probably regret giving this tip away, but hell, I've got a girlfriend now so, may as well be generous. Good Luck!

Answer 4

I am a man. But my experience says, yes most women take offense unless they are showing them off in some fashion. Try getting to know the person first before laying on the compliments. When women are at a club they hear this kind of crap all the time. So much so that I doubt that any will even answer your question here.

So the rule of thumb is: If they are flaunting them, compliment them. Just don't make it the first words out of your mouth. Be charming and not rude. It gets you farther with women.

If a big breasted woman has a shirt on that goes all the way to their neck, you had best keep your opinion to your self. Cause you will likely get slapped.

I know you wanted to hear from a woman. And you might find one that will respond. But most women will take offense in the question alone.

Answer 5

You are saying this to GIRLS? Wow. You should be hanging around women, not girls. Of course they take offense!

And here is another example where a piece of advice I learned from my sister applies:

Not Every Thought That Enters Your Head Needs To Come Out Of Your Mouth!

You sound extremely immature. I am betting you've been slapped more than once, and yet, you are still asking this question... What will it take for you to get it?

Answer 6

If you want to get on with women, you need to compliment everything but her boobs - hair, eyes especially. maybe you can get away with something about her having a nice figure. The time to compliment her boobs is when you have got her in the bedroom and you are naked together - then saying something like "you've got the loveliest breasts" will certainly help things along!

Answer 7

Yes. What is sweet to you, may not be sweet to me. I am constantly being met by men who look at my chest and not my face. I feel so sorry for young women who have to get augmentation and wish I could pass along some of mine. But being complimented on intimate body parts is insulting and shallow. Compliment the hair, or the dress, the smile or the eyes, if that's your opening.

The best opening I ever got from a stranger was "I'm going to ask you for your number in 5 minutes, in the meantime, I'm going to make the mundane double talk everybody expects."

I laughed, and after five minutes of inane double talk, I gave him my number. We went out for quite a while.

Answer 8

A well earned compliment? I didn't earn my boobs. They just kinda grew there on their own.

Maybe if I'd worked & earned money for plastic surgery, then I could be said to have earned them. Maybe not.

I wouldn't want you talking about my boobs. Just as I wouldn't talk about a part of your body.

Answer 9

If she has a really fantastic set of boobs, compliment her on something else, since she probably already has heard how nice they are a thousand times. Maybe her eyes since dudes never get around to seeing what they look like.

Answer 10

Depends on the situation and location and HOW it is said.

I've felt anywhere from flattered to outright offended at some comments.

And, if I'm flaunting them I don't get bothered by comments since I wore clothes to enhance my girls. Its ridiculous to feel offended when you are baring your chest to everyone to comment on!