please tell me why a married man,or a man in a relationship would want to go to a stripclub?
also,what are your thoughts about them?
what do you think about your partner going to one?(without u)
please be serious. thank you.
2007-10-13 04:30:38 · 17 answers · asked by ♥livingdeadgirl♥ 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Oh no no no! No man of mine will ever have it easy if known he goes to a strip club!
For most men, it's almost the social thing to do. But the Christian man should not go because of this scripture:
"For all that is in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life—is not of the Father but is of the world." 1 John 2:16
How can a man go to a strip club without lusting after a naked woman? And how much respect is he showing the woman he's married to? If a man is not married but in a relationship and his girl knows he goes to these clubs -- drop him! Next thing you'll know, he'll justify having a woman on the side...
2007-10-13 04:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by Cee 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
I have gone to strip clubs while in a relationship and it has sort of a good side effect. When in a relationship for a long time the sex can start to wane, after going to a strip club for a couple of hours I could not wait to go home to my girlfriend to get some. You have to realize that men rarely ever do more than touch the strippers boobs while in a strip club. In some places it is forbidden to touch, only looking is allowed.
2007-10-13 11:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by DEXTER J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think MTL has correctly diagnoised it.When the husband was attracted towards you he was really and honestly infatuate with you.However, this infatuation is and was based on his imaginationabout the body that was wrapped in clothes well and truly. The slightl bulging belly has been properlt tied tightly. That mark of appendix operation on the right side of the belly has been carefully camouflaged.May be there is a dark patch which is galling against your otherwise blameless skin. It may just be a birthmark. But when you undress on the first night thiese blemishes cannot be hidden. Even if in the first flush of desire he may overlook them but free and frequent access to your naked body may have its effect albeit subsconsciously. Though out of love and coutesy he may not talk to you aboutt it he may not talk about it but these blemished which have sunk into his subconscious may drive him to other naked body(not necessarily for sleeping with a fond hope to find a spotless physiue.As the girls strippig themsellves before the audence may adopt deceptive pracices to make body look without any blemish.And he may be impressed.dddd
But he forgets that the husband /boyfriend does not attend the strip show. He knows what is what. And for aught you know he may be hopefully attending nother st ripe tease show yearing to see a spotless body.
2007-10-13 11:54:37 · answer #3 · answered by Prabhakar G 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
OK. I'm sorry but women just don't get this. Hetero men go to strip clubs for the same reason they watch football together. It's a guy thing. It has nothing to do with their marriages. Drink beer, watch great looking young women dance in their scanties or less is just fun.
Gay and straight alike: Looking at another of whatever sex turns you on in no way demeans the relationship you have at home. In fact, it can add to it in a positive way. Don't straight women have their Cosmo centerfolds, and clubs where men dance for them?
2007-10-13 11:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stripclubs are s serious offence against
modesty,
dignity,
respect,
intelligence,
love,
and if you're married, why go look when you have someone to touch.
Also, the main reason that people get into a relationship is because they love that person and want to make them happy, if his going makes you unhappy, he's thinking only of himself.
2007-10-13 11:42:36 · answer #5 · answered by carmel 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well... going to a strip club isn't the same as watching porn or having sex- nor is it as debauched and perverted as people generally think. It's often jsut a way to ahve fun with some mates!!
The Second thing is that going to a strip club just means the guy enjoys looking at beautiful, scantilly clad, young ladies! Shock horror!! it doesn't mean he LOVES them! Love is important in a marriage or relationship- the parteners dont' constantly need to think the others are the msot beautiful people in the world.
All in all i don't think there's ANYTHING wrong with strip clubs or married/attached men going there!
2007-10-13 11:39:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
NO Christian man...single or married would go to or support such...and what sort of sick man would take their wife or girlfriend to such a place??
think about who those people are!! many are teens that have become trapped and forced into against their will....
The exploitation and demoralization of women for financial gain...the business that support and are behind such enterprises...the adult film industry, kiddie porn,prostitution, drugs, gangs, etc....
my twin daughters were put into foster care by a false cps accusation...at age 16 they were put to work by the foster parent in a Seattle strip club....
I guess I should be grateful that they did not pimp them out...as far as I know....they would be 29 years old this Christmas....I don't think they made it out of foster care alive since there has been no word of them in 10 years...
that is some ones daughter doing that pole dance...and off stage is some jerk with a stun gun to make sure she does a good job....
why would any man go to such a place????what do you think my thoughts are???
2007-10-13 13:13:12 · answer #7 · answered by coffee_pot12 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I don't necessarily think that he is going there to drool over the girls. It is an entertaining way to go out with your buddies and talk about whatever and have a nice backdrop for the conversation.
Some guys find it humorous to attend strip clubs. IF you haven't been to a female strip club I suggest you go or ask to go with him one time to see what it is like. Its not as bad as you think it is especially if he goes during the day. If you want a good laugh go see what the Daytime girls look like.
The only downside for you is if you don't compliment him enough or make him feel good about himself that he may be going because it gives him the feel that he is wanted by them. Strippers will pretend that they are interested in you and only you if you show them that you have money. Single or lonely or depressed guys will find enjoyment in girls falsely showing interest in them.
2007-10-13 11:39:27 · answer #8 · answered by blindmelon5150 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm a Christian and believe it is a sin to work at/operate/go to strip clubs. But aside from that, I think it's disrespectful to ones wife to run out and look at naked women, in clubs, online or in magazines.
EDIT: Another thing married men should consider, if they wouldn't want a bunch of drunks drooling over their scantilly clad daughters, they shouldn't do the same over someone else's.
2007-10-13 11:48:14 · answer #9 · answered by Rossonero NorCal SFECU 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Nothing wrong with strip clubs, they are harmless. I'd be more worried about the next door neighbor asking your husband to innocently lend her a hand.
2007-10-13 11:43:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋