my boyfriend just dumped me out of the blue. said he had found someone else - he had been seeing her behind my back, right under my nose and i didnt even realise! how could i be such an idiot to not have known!? now i really miss him. no matter what hes done to me i miss him cause i really did love him. does it ever stop hurting? and what can i do to get over him?
2007-10-12 16:54:10 · 21 answers · asked by pj_jc_jh 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie, unfortunately it takes a really long time for the pain to stop, especially if you really loved him. I'm sorry that he did that to you and you are not an idiot, it happens to everyone at one time or another. Over time the pain will lessen, but it will always pop into your mind at one time or another. Treat yourself to a nice day out and remember that its his loss and there are many more amazing guys out there that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Good luck.
2007-10-12 17:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sad and unfortunate truth to all this is that sometimes you just need to not see him and not hear from him. It's tough to let go of someone you love (I'm experiencing that with a girl who lives a ways away from me and I can't stop thinking of her). It's true what they say: "Time heals all wounds". As far as what you can do, I say either do something that gets him off your mind, even for a little bit or get a new boyfriend.
2007-10-12 16:59:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I'm sorry you're hurting. Yes it does get better! You need to re-read the words in your great profile..."Live Life" you said. Listen to yourself! You are a survivor with experience at such a young age. you are here for a very special reason. Go find it and be happy. You are far above him...
2007-10-12 16:59:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup, i know how it feels. Been there. although he wronged u,u still feel a void and miss him. What i will advise is try and get a hobby, hang out with friends, basically anything that can help you forget about this ex. Who knows, u might find the perfect match for u in the process. Someone who will show u what real love is. i did.
Best of luck, girl.
2007-10-12 17:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to move on with you life start having other friends to talk too or hang out with. It may hurt for a little while but it gets better with time.He actually done you a favor he wasn't the one obviously, Don't be no fool and waist your time with him,He's happy so you go on and be happy somewhere else.
2007-10-12 17:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by wolverine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take time i will eventually stop hurting and you will feel much better. You will fin some who is alot more worthy of you love. If he really loved you he would have cheated on you. It was cruel and mean of him. Keep doing what you would normally do and enjoy life because you don't know how many tomorrows you will have.
2007-10-12 17:07:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm really sorry about that :(
i'm in the middle of a break up too
and mine happened about 3 weeks ago and the pain didn't go away since...
but you know what helps?
just CRY, let it out. then go meet your girlfriends and cry while eating chocolate ice cream.
And just pick the right date, for instance, today or tomorrow or next monday, and when you picked that date, promise to yourself that you'll forget about him.
i picked a certain date and i seriously tried my best to forget about him.
i hope this helps! email me if you have any problems
i'll help you out any way i can <3
2007-10-12 17:16:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We'll find out together. I'm really missing someone, too and I wonder if I'll ever be happy again. I can't imagine my life without him and it bothers me to remember things we did and know that we'll never have that again. It's very sad. I'm trying to stay busy, which helps, but I can't keep my mind occupied 24/7.
2007-10-12 16:58:03 · answer #8 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sill miss my girl after 3 years
2007-10-12 16:56:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is never really gonna stop hurting until u decide is time. what i can reccomend right now is to focus on yourself like what things u havent done cuz he wouldnt let you or try things that u never taught of doing but looked like fun. ull stop missing him once u realize that u never needed him
2007-10-12 16:59:58 · answer #10 · answered by mexicandimples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋