My grandfather was in the military. my grandmother was from an upperclass family, and they hated my grandfather. My grandfather died in Vietnam. they hate me because I was named after my grand father. My father married my mother because he got her pregnant not because he loved her. Nobody loves me except my mom and dad and my mother's mom and my aunt on my mom's side. Why should I continue living? I know the only god there is is a god of suffering,pain ,apathy and death. How can I die quickly?The christian god hates me. Tell me how I can die fast???
2007-10-12 16:41:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
God is love he hates no one, he hates only sin. you seem to have two loving parents that love you , your very lucky . Pain and suffering is part of life, it teachs us things about ourself that we would normally not find out , the point is to learn from the pain and suffering , to endure it and be stronger because of it. You now know how important family should be, and how a family should and should not act toward other family members, use this later on in life when you are married with children and have your own family! Suicide will only hurt those that truly love you . try sending your family members that dislike you a letter , telling them how they are missing out on knowing a very good , kind person, sometimes confrontation and getting these emotions out is the best thing to do . God Bless
2007-10-12 17:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ஐDanielleஐ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What?!?!? You just listed at least three people who love you, three very important people I might add, & then in the same paragraph you ask why you should continue living?
Well duh! Maybe it's because YOU ARE LOVED, AND VALUED, AND WANTED!
Every family has a few dufouses in it. Killing yourself because these shallow unworthy idiots don't love you is a poor excuse.
There's got to be a better reason why you are feeling so depressed. I think it's not because you are stupid, or deranged or anything like that, but you may have a chemical imbalance that is creating a distortion in the filter through which you view the world. Wouldn't it be tragic if you are feeling so sad & down on yourself wanting to die, when all you need is a little prescription from your doctor to make everything appear as it should be?
I recommend that you see your family doc right away before you give any further consideration to doing anything so drastic as killing yourself.
In the meantime, surround yourself with the people you know love you, & keep them close until you feel better.
Take care!
2007-10-13 00:02:44 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the reason youre having a horrible life is because youre talking down on God, why should he help you when youre blaming him and saying all this crap about him, im sure he doesnt appreciate that!!!!!
so freaken what if your aunt and other famliy members hate you, the only thing that matters is that your parents love you and care about you THEY are the ones involved in your life the most, you wanna die becuase somebody hates you?
if you want healing, stop talking smack about God and apologzie to him and ask him to heal the pain, he will take the burden for you.
2007-10-13 00:47:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My, my, my!
Look... you have your parents, so celebrate that.
For most people, their family is their first set of obstacles to overcome in their path through life. Wrap your head around that.
The extended family is not your problem. That means that when this lot shows up looking for a handout, you don't have to deal with them.
The cool thing is that this generation is the LAST one to be dealing with bloodline karma. Next time out, everyone starts with fresh soul groups.
2007-10-13 00:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, honey, live your life for you. Don't dwell on the hardships. Concentrate on making things better. Death is not the answer. It will not solve any problems but it will create new ones for the ones you leave behind. If your father's family don't want to know you, it is their loss, not yours. I had to face the fact that my birth father did not want me, nor did my two half sisters by him. Yes, it hurt in the beginning, but I realized that I did not lose anything by not knowing them.
2007-10-12 23:51:25 · answer #5 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God doesn't hate you. Your father's side of the family are just retarded. Be glad that they don't want anything to do with you, because they certainatly aren't worth knowing.
2007-10-12 23:47:32 · answer #6 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
come on! who has a family where everyone loves each other, except on tv or movies which is crap, as my dad would say, everyone in my family hates each other, thats the way it is, and my ex's family (my daughters fathers family) all HATE me so bad and I'm cool with that, its NICE to KNOW your enemys, YOU ARE LUCKY that way! and so am I , so just be happy have some members that love you.
and my oldest daughter looks and acts like me so they hate her to cause of this but she has enough sence to see that its nice to know that too, that was a side note, so cheer up and relax, enjoy those who love you and screw those that dont, who needs them!
2007-10-12 23:57:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Please don't do anything stupid! How do you think your mom would feel if you died? Please talk to someone soon!
2007-10-12 23:50:53 · answer #8 · answered by proud mommy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋