I'm 28. He's 34.
When should I consider sleeping with him?
Seriously. We are not even an item (yet.) But I really like him. I don;t want him to think of me as a slag.
Also, I've been only with 3 other guys...kind of intimidated because he's older and presumably a lot more experienced.
2007-10-12 16:25:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Consider me old fashioned if you want, but I say, do it right. If you begin a relationship and you're in love, and he ask you to marry him. Wait until you're married.
2007-10-12 16:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 15⤊ 9⤋
It's hard for anyone to say, I don't think you should wait too long it's not like your a virgin but you still want to be conservitive. I had this delema not too long ago....I waited 4 months and I thought I would die, he too was experienced and thats a little intimidating. I'm glad we did have sex that was the moment I said to myself you better hang on to this one, I felt the love in my heart once again.
2007-10-12 23:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by be_wise_life2live 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
When he says, I love you and I only want to be with you, and you feel the same. And you've been dating for more than 4 months, which means more than 15 dates.
2007-10-12 23:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 8⤊ 3⤋
whenevr the feeling is right, but obviously the first step is to take him onto a couple of dates, or actually he take you, but i guess you could follow the third date, third base rule
2007-10-12 23:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by ceesteris 6 · 5⤊ 4⤋
Don't have sex until you are in a relationship, because it'll show whether he's in it for the sex or he's in it for your love.
You'll know when you're ready..
2007-10-12 23:29:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 14⤊ 3⤋
not until he shows commitment and you're in a loving relationship....
2007-10-12 23:35:19 · answer #6 · answered by amyhwoods 5 · 8⤊ 3⤋
save sex for marriage it makes it a lot more precious
2007-10-13 01:21:55 · answer #7 · answered by Kaden H 2 · 11⤊ 5⤋
Your nbot an item, and your already, in your mind, in bed with him?
SLOW DOWN.
The Rat
2007-10-12 23:30:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 6⤋
When you start to really love him! that's the right time...
2007-10-12 23:30:36 · answer #9 · answered by In love! 6 · 5⤊ 6⤋