ok, so i started talking to this man a few months ago, things were going well when he said he didnt have time for a real relationship. He said we can hang out and do things together and have sexual benefits....but only with each other. He calls/texts me everyday and talk about everything from work to our kids to intimate details of our lives.we see each other as much as possible. soooo, how is this different from a "real relationship"?!
2007-10-12 13:17:11 · 10 answers · asked by jmeshabree 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
mm... There's a very fuzzy line between close friends with benefits and lovers... I think the main difference is that friends with benefits has an easier out, so if I were you I would have fun, but don't get your hopes up for a substantial relationship.
And ideally, a friends with benefits situation is using each other for sex. As long as that is mutually understood, it can be a great thing.
2007-10-12 13:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by Sacred Chao 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 03:00:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he don't have time for a real relationship. why in the heck he telling you that you that you can only go out with him and he is the only person that you can have sex with? That is like a real relationship too me. Hello!!!! What did he hit you over the head with Lady? I am going to be very blunt with you. If you that stupid to fall for that, then you're goin to get screw over big time. He is control this relationship to his advantage rather be equal. If he have the time for this kind of relationship with you, then he have the time for a real one. If not then he just want you to be his personal booty call!! That is the way I see and I am going to call just like it is...wake up lady!
2007-10-12 13:40:09 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not different except that you're not calling "a relationship" -- and since it's not a "real relationship" ... there's no problems with either partner walking away from it or finding someone else to be with at any given point. (It keeps everyone "in the market")
2007-10-12 13:21:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means he's using you for sex; pure and simple. 'Friends with benefits' is the most degrading and pathetic thing ever! Why not find a guy who actually respects you enough to start a PROPER relationship with you, instead of one who just possesses you for sex and can walk away whenever he feels like it? :/
2007-10-12 13:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
To all the men out there, take a lesson from this.
This is what's known as having game.
2007-10-12 13:25:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no commitment and no expectation of one. So when he gets tired of you and decides to cheat, it won't be cheating because you are a friend with benefits and not his lady. It's for his benefit, not yours.
2007-10-12 14:11:01 · answer #7 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he wants to be able to drop it if he needs to with out much stress...
2007-10-12 13:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by Jeff F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is somehow different from a "real relationship" cause i think there is no commitment at all, i guess...
2007-10-12 13:24:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its how he labels it --- you know how you feel and i suspect you know how he feels ---- let the relationship mature and let him sort out his priorities (you should be number one) ---- best wishes
2007-10-12 13:21:53 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋