my and my best friend use to work together and then a new guy started cute, charming etc, we went on a night out every1 frm work - me an him slept 2gether, my best mate then said she liked him as well as me. He however wasnt interested! Typical male! they later started getin 2gether an we fell out, made up an whilst they wer 2gether i slept wit him, i later told her coz i felt guilty. She went mad (2 b expected) and we all fell out. They made up after 7 days but only as friends. It took me 4 weeks to make it up to her (best as i could) and even now we are nothing like we used to be!! (me and him no longer talk AT ALL) although two weeks ago she told me she and him had kissed, i dont care but thought she was silly. but 2night she told me that they ad got 2gether again after tellin me she had no feelings for him, an now theres a chance dey cud get bk 2gether. i feel betrayed after everything, he can stil charm her yet ive lost my best friend and we'll never be the same! Advice plz
2007-10-12 12:47:45 · 11 answers · asked by michelle k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not that im jealous because honestly im completey over him!!! im gutted that a guy who weve known for 6 months has the abilty to control my friend, and she still has feelings for him after everything we've both done yet i'm nothing but an average friend, yes were friends but nothing like we used to be, we were like sisters, y do guys have the ability to ruin female friendships. I just wish she'd she him for who he is and not let him control her anymmore, yet im nothing to her. please hellp. i know what i did was wrong this has been astabblished but he is worse because he just keeps going back to hurt her more!!! he even said to her he was a womaniser and used woman for sex! he even took her virginity two days before sleeping with me when we cheated on her!! he is scum!! xx
2007-10-12 12:51:48 · update #1
Atrocious...are you a chav? Such social mis-steps seem to plague your kind.
2007-10-12 12:51:38 · answer #1 · answered by practical thinking 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You and your friend messed up in messing with the same guy. I think your friendship can never be what it once was. As friends a person has to respect the people in a friends life. If one is seeing a guy that mean hands off. Best thing is for each to go their own way.
2007-10-12 19:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by Red Rose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may be back together when the charm of this guy wears out and then she will need you as a friend to tell her what I tell you know, this guy is a player and is not going to be faithful to anyone but himself, and getting involved with him can only lead to you being hurt. Find someone better!!
2007-10-12 19:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See that's the difference between girls and guys. Guys aren't going to fall out with each other over some girl. We know that there's always other fish to be had in the sea. You two just need to figure out who gets the current guy, and the other one needs to go fishing again.
2007-10-12 19:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shouldn't have slept with him too soon. Take out that factor and the problem is easy to deal with, huh?
2007-10-12 19:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by leeloo ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if respect was involved, it never would had come down to all that, and you would still have your so-called best friend.
2007-10-12 19:53:55 · answer #6 · answered by benejueves 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
too much for me too read.. sry good luck what ever ur probmel iss
xoxoxo
2007-10-12 19:57:17 · answer #7 · answered by prettyinpinkxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you surprised? Find another friend.
2007-10-12 19:55:14 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh too long
2007-10-12 19:49:34 · answer #9 · answered by smiley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on#
2007-10-12 19:52:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋