but outside of church he is always lieing about his past and I found out he had profiles on porn sights before we where married. He has also gave pain pills of his to a guy at work he doesn't even know. He is tight with his money even in church when they ask for love offerings to help the church or the families from our church. I even found emails he sent woman before we got married he said it was not him and so I had him place his hand on the bible and he lied when he did that finaly I showed him the emails and he fessed up. He was saved so he says but continuesly lies and even to the lord. What do I do?
2007-10-12 05:09:33 · 18 answers · asked by me 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Boy, you better hang on to THAT stud with both hands -- he's a keeper!
2007-10-12 05:13:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
your question paints a bad picture no doubt.
but I'll bet it not the whole story. like why did you get married in the first place? how long has he been saved? why do you care about what he did or didn't do before you? do you two know what a covenant is? do you take it seriously (marriage covenant)?
and why in the world would you uncover him on yahoo answers?
so , worse has come sooner than later for you. you need to get both of you into see your Pastor and begin in earnest to resolve your problems....both of you. your answer is in the word of God not on this forum. seek Godly consul.
by the way i know I may be the only one to speak for saving your marriage or bold enough to tell you the truth.
Prayer & Blessings for your marriage.
2007-10-12 12:23:07 · answer #2 · answered by lewbiv 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What? A hypocritical Christian? I've never heard of this before.
He sounds like a shady dude who pretends to be a moral christian to others. This only describes about 40% of the US males.
2007-10-12 12:15:03 · answer #3 · answered by Take it from Toby 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well when you accept Jesus Christ as your personal savior that doesn't mean from then on it's time to be self-righteous.
Ro:11:6: And if by grace, then is it no more of works: otherwise grace is no more grace. But if it be of works, then is it no more grace: otherwise work is no more work.
2Co:12:9: And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.
Ga:2:21: I do not frustrate the grace of God: for if righteousness come by the law, then Christ is dead in vain.
Ga:5:4: Christ is become of no effect unto you, whosoever of you are justified by the law; ye are fallen from grace.
Take care and may God bless you spiritually.
2007-10-12 12:21:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to your pastor. Sorry to say there are MANY Christian men and women filling the church who profess the Lord with their mouths but their actions and secret lives reflect differently.
2007-10-12 12:14:17 · answer #5 · answered by me 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ah.....can you say annulment? He is wearing two hats here. Get rid of him soon!! Trust is one of the major factors in a marriage and it doesn't seem like you will ever have that component in yours. Run!!!
2007-10-12 12:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by caligirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And that's a shock to you? Most of them are like that. I mean " Christians " You have to decide if you want to share your life with that kind of man. Good luck.
2007-10-12 12:16:09 · answer #7 · answered by elgil 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Give him an ultimatum...regular therapy with a therapist and your pastor or divorce. This can only get worse without intervention.
2007-10-12 12:20:12 · answer #8 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He needs to be delivered from a satanic influence. Take it before the pastor.
2007-10-12 12:13:29 · answer #9 · answered by Tribble Macher 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
have him swear on a stack of tv guides.
it is far more important than the bible.
2007-10-12 12:14:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋