Does anybody else out there have any comments for this?

Question

Why is it that when you really like a person, they dont want you, but when you are not interested, they like you and would really treat you nicely???Whats up with that...Also why is it that player guys that dont really care, come out ahead

Answer 1

The frist question is easily answered if you understand how insecurities work. Its easy to be insecure about yourself when someone comes up and ask you out, this isn't having to do with you and them, as much as the social group. This is espacially evdent in highschool, were most people date on a hierachy scale. Also there is the nature of the unattainable. Its a challage and that drives some people, but isn't a good relationship to get into because its based on pride and not heart.

As for players getting ahead this is because of two fundemental things. One being that players act like they don't care, this is the same as being, unattainable and attracts people because to have the unattianable most mean theres something special about you. That aside bad boys have purpose's outside the relationship, even if there not good. Its easier to be comfrontable when your following someone, as oppose to a good guy relationship, were their following you.