hi
there are two girls in my year and they are both single.
i fancy them both and m pretty sur they fancy me. the problem is i dont have a clue of what to do. please help
by the way i dont know which one i love the mmost.
2007-10-12 04:11:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't love any of them you just fancy them both. What you need to do is really think about it. Which one can you see yourself dating, which one can you see yourself having fun with, which one can you see yourself enjoying things with and laughing with and enjoying their company.
Think long and hard about it cause you don't want to make the wrong decision
2007-10-12 04:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to figure out which one will be the best for you overall. Weigh out your options. You cannot be in love with 2 people it is not possible because if you are then you really don't know what love is. Someone that knows what love is feels so strongly about one particular person that no other girl or guy matters. So my opinion is weigh out your pros and cons with both girls and see what you come up with. Try to at least start there.
2007-10-12 11:18:23 · answer #2 · answered by spleefarella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say think about both girls and then write down on seperate sheets of paper what you like about each. Then on the back of each paper write down what you dislike about each. It doesn't always work, but usually the one you like the most will have more likeably attributes than the other. You don't love either of them, you just like both of them. There is a big difference. Try seeing yourself dating one or the other, but when you make a choice don't wish you had choosen the other girl.
2007-10-12 11:23:32 · answer #3 · answered by Sour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to take the next step and actually go on a date , you need to start conversations with them .
Try and find something you have in common , e.g ,music you like , films you like etc . Then you can ask to take them to a cinema , disco , meal etc .
As for which one , I suggest you try not to double date as that usually ends up with problems . !!
Good Luck
2007-10-12 11:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by Scobill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well get to know them and see which one is more your type. Thats what i would do. And the best thing to do is wait and see what God has planned for you and then go from there.
2007-10-12 11:18:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back to the good old and time tested dictum ie 'the proof of a pudding is in eating.Hope you get it right.'
2007-10-12 11:25:38 · answer #6 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How the hell are we going to help? Make up your mind, silly! And ask better questions next time.
2007-10-12 11:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by beth_dyosa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well wait on your heart as it will let you know who you favor for love the most.
2007-10-12 11:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time. Get to know them and over time decide who you REALLY like.
2007-10-12 11:15:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well you need to pick one before you windf up losing both
2007-10-12 11:17:01 · answer #10 · answered by pamela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋