I had to see my doctor to talk about my problems and he wanted to see the cuts on my arm and i showed him. I'm so depressed and they want to to take anti-depressions and i really dont want to i'm really working on the cutting. I just feel that i am a cold hearted ***** that doesnt desirve to me loved and i think that people waste there time loving me. what should i do?
2007-10-12 03:19:38 · 8 answers · asked by Tia 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Hi Tia!
This may appear to be a little harsh but first of all if it were me I would throw my self pity out of the window right away it will not help you.
Everyone deserves to be loved If God loves you as you are you have no right not to love yourself,throw that thinking out with the other "Stuff".
Then I would listen to my doctor as he is qualified and I would take the ani depressants with it in mind that I am going to let them help my central nervous system.
Once I have grown through this tough experience I will no longer need the medicine.
While I get about making minute by minute decisions to stop this behavior.
When My frame of mind goes over to the old behavior Phillipians 4:8 put this into your mind ,once you think on this the other thought will leave as they cannot be in their together.
You need to retrain your thinking and the word of God is alive and powerful.
This little poem was written by a man who was going through a grief process his only daughter had gone home to be with the Lord.
"When peace like a river attendeth my way.
When sorrows like sea billows roll.
Whatever my lot He has taught me to say.
"It is well it is well with my soul.
God Bless.
Keep plodding!
Take care!
2007-10-12 19:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Tia. Please get some help from a suicide prevention hotline:
1-800-SUICIDE or 1-800-784-2433
These people can help you talk through things and begin to help you.
There's nothing wrong with reaching out for help. Please know that you are not alone. It may feel like it but there are others just like you who feel the same way. You might want to get a therapist that you can trust/connect with and meet with on a weekly basis -- this will really help you a lot because you'll establish a very close relationship with him/her and the one benefit to this over talking to family/friends is it won't be invasive or judgemental or come back to haunt you later. You can trust your therapist with anything you feel or say and not have to worry what they're going to think of you later. Also a good therapist can actually give you the tools you need to begin to change your life for a postive future. You can actually heal yourself spiritually and leave this part of your life behind and move on to a better life. A lot of people could really use a good therapist but instead keep everything bottled up inside or end up talking to friends/family who don't always have the right advice or tools to help you move forward. I wish you love, peace and all the best. Again, please know you are not alone and get some help.
2007-10-12 10:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by Sahana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get so down on yourself--im sure you have no reason to feel that way.i know that you still do tho(obviously) but before you take meds for it-try doing something totally different.like for instance try something you've never done a hobby-if you will.that will give you some confidence in yourself that you are able to do anything as long as you try and you will then be able to understand WHY people CAN and DO love you.i've seen plenty of my friends go down this road-the drugs can help but they can also have you addicted in no time.try counselling-it doesnt have to be a stranger or a doc-just someone you trust and isnt judgemental.try to eat healthy and get some physical activity going on-i promise you will feel loads better.if you find there is nobody out there who understands or who isnt judgemental of you then you can talk to me if you'd like-email me no prob.-berlytea@yahoo.com.good luck in whatever you do-just remember to love yourself first cuz in the end if no one else does then at least you can count on yourself.much luv lil lady!
2007-10-12 10:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by berlytea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to see a therpist as well... taking antidepressants and not actually addressing the issues isn't going to help. Seek some counseling...
And everyon deserves to be loved... FYI...
2007-10-12 10:23:11 · answer #4 · answered by B.EAZY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take the meds, and start exercising. Foster a good bit of arrogance, that will help build up self-worth.
2007-10-12 10:22:21 · answer #5 · answered by akristel2003 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the medication. I didn't want to take it either. I finally tried it and now I don't want to be without it. Don't be afraid to be happy or to like yourself. Continuing to live like this when you don't have to is a disservice to yourself.
2007-10-12 10:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by Missy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you so unhappy about? What do you think makes you unhappy? That would be my first questions.
2007-10-12 10:31:04 · answer #7 · answered by debbri48 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take the meds
2007-10-12 10:21:29 · answer #8 · answered by twapped2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋