My boyfriend and i have only just met. I don't know anything about him at the moment. My friends don't like him and say that he is strange and possesive. Should i dump him or get to know him first?
2007-10-12 00:28:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well 2bh you should realli actualli get to kno him first !! coz you will never ever kno what culd of had if you dont take a chance !! i had that same proble with my boyfriend but now my mates are fine with him and i feel that not only is he my boyfriend but my best friends aswell !! I have now been wth him 10 months and they hav been the happiest ten months of my life !! Good Luck !!
2007-10-12 00:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if you don't know anything about him how can you call him your bf? I think you should have got to know what makes him the way he is before you decided to become his gf. PPl make this mistake in their life all the time because they don't take the time to get to know a person. I am saying, this not just about bf's or gf's but just about anyone you come in contact with and want to associate with. I feel you should always approach a person as a study to see what they are all about and what makes them who they are because in the end you will start seeing the real person. No one can hide who they really are in person as time goes by. Always watch for warning signs, which are always there but some ppl have blinders on when they really like someone that they don't see what is in front of there face at the time. I am sure this man gave you warning signs but you refused to take heed to them. I hope you don't let him control you because no one should be able to dictate to anyone how to live their lives.
Wish you all the best in life.
2007-10-12 00:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by dawn c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y are u dating someone that you dont know? U should have rather gotten to know him first. Y did u start dating him? If you dont know someone how do u know if u like them or not? Rather dump him. Ur friends can obviously see something that u cant!
2007-10-12 01:06:16 · answer #3 · answered by Stacey-Lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know him. That is unless your friends knew him already and he was in that kind of relationship before. I would say give him a chance but drop him if he gets possesive.
2007-10-12 00:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by B M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said that "you have only just met. You don't know anything about him at the moment." then how can he your boyfriend? He is just a friend for you until you know him better than yourself...think over it ....IT works!!! :)
2007-10-12 00:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get know him first
don't behave like a dump person to dump him only bcoz ur friend doesn't like him
God bless U
2007-10-12 00:52:04 · answer #6 · answered by shabana o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you just meet the guy and he is your boyfriend,,, Doesn't that seem strange to you, because it sure does me. I say get to know him before you have kids together.
2007-10-12 00:34:30 · answer #7 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are dating someone you don't know???
Try making friends with someone before going out with them. Then you won't have to ask questions like this.
2007-10-12 00:33:05 · answer #8 · answered by Becci 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dearest Princess
Sometimes others see what we don't see. You'r g.f must see things in him you don't see and if you are asking this you alredy know he's not good for you.
Good luck
2007-10-12 00:40:39 · answer #9 · answered by ho8er2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do that you will hurt his feeling and yours don't listing to your friend try knowing him first before you dissed you never know he migth be shy and I'm sure he love you or he will have end it with you first if you love him do what your hearth tells you
2007-10-12 00:36:12 · answer #10 · answered by katie o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋