I have a friend who ive been friends with for over 2 years. We dated for about a month and i ended it because of it not working out. He was the one who mentioned that we should continue being friends and that he would have NO problem JUST being my friend. So of course i said ok. We've been hanging out all the time like we used to. he came over today on his own, and he decided he wanted to go hang out with some other friends..he invited me to go along. but he wanted to take seperate cars (which was weird since he haaaaaaates driving and im always the one that does drive) so we took seperate cars..as we were driving he was going TOO fast like 100 mph on a 45mph road. I didnt try keeping up since i knew where i was going and figured we would just meet up. I get to the destination and hes not there...i try calling SEVERAL times, no answer. I turn around to leave and then i see his car. i turn around to follow him and he starts taking this detour driving
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2007-10-11 21:59:52 · 7 answers · asked by JDM98 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
at the same speed (around 90-100mph) In a RESIDENTIAL area...once again I dont even try to keep up but i try to remember where he turned...finally i lost him and went home, i tried calling again and texting him..no answer..so pretty much i wasted gas that i dont have the money to replace... This reallly hurt my feelings...in my oppinion the only reason u would take a random detour and drive like that is to ditch someone and if he didnt mean to do that to me, he would of called me once he realized i wasnt at the destination. Im really pissed off about this. I dont know or understand why he would act like this and not even have to decency to at least say he didnt want me hanging out with him...EVEN THOUGH before this happened he randomly came over to my house...
what should i do
2007-10-11 22:00:03 · update #1
As strange as it may sound , ignore it. Hes trying to get some sort of reaction from you, and it would totally throw him off if you said nothing at all about it. Making yourself unavailable to him isn't a bad idea either, just don't say why, ha that will piss him off , watch,
2007-10-15 21:54:16 · answer #1 · answered by ehddhemunster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you need to confront him and ask him why he behaved in the manner in which he did.
Then you need to tell him (regardless of his reasoning-if any) that you WILL NOT tolerate such strange and ridiculous behavior.
After that, you will tell him that you enjoy his company but he made you feel like s-- and if he ever does it again you're going to break all contact with him.
Finally, if you don't get the response you were hoping for (ie, and apology and reasonable explanation) you will just end the 'friendship' because it really won't be worth it. *But* if you do get the response you want, just forgive and forget, but if it happens again..end it!
*friends are people too...they make mistakes and do stupid things...but, should you chose to, don't let it slide for a second time*
2007-10-12 05:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do forgive me but....he sounds like a complete dumb sh*t.
Don't bother calling him anymore.
It maybe hard but....for heavens' sakes, why even try?
Next time he calls....don't answer.
Even if youre bored out of your mind.
Next time he comes over....be short with him and say you're getting ready to leave.
If he mentions going, laugh and say, "I don't think thats such a good idea."
If he snaps and asks why, simply reply, "I don't want a speeding ticket."
If he just stands there like the moron he is or does say something back just say, "Alright, man...I'm outie. See ya."
I would DEF. end this friendship, hun.
People like this hardly ever change their crazy ways for anyone.
They do stuff like this just to make innocent ppl like you feel like complete fools.
It would of been real funny if you had of seen him get pulled over by a cop!
I woulda laughed my a** off!
2007-10-12 05:12:14 · answer #3 · answered by Virgo's Eternal Reign 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah thats really messed up on his part!! cause you can tell he was obviously trying to ditch you..thats so mean..what kindn of punk would do that..
yeah i think u should tell his its over that u no longer whan to be his friend....and that its his decision as well because actions speak louder that words!! and thats what his actions meant!!
2007-10-12 05:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by maricela g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he intentionally tried to hurt you. Get rid of him for good. You don't deserve that.
2007-10-12 05:10:03 · answer #5 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, what a awful thing to do to you! dont give someone like that a second chance
2007-10-12 05:05:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sure did it on purpose..i think he did it to get even with you,you really must have hurt him. but ask him first why he did it before you end it.
2007-10-12 06:14:19 · answer #7 · answered by chix_charmedk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋