selfish to try to get them to stay??
2007-10-11 20:24:35 · 21 answers · asked by Ginny 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
While your feelings might be selfish, it's what you do about those feelings that counts. All feelings are valid. But not all actions are. Support and encourage your friend, no matter their choices. That is honorable and respectful love. And when that friend needs a soft place to land, they will remember your kindness and return.
2007-10-12 02:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by jjoy4444 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In a way yes it is selfish to try to get some one to stay behind if that person needs to move on. However I believe this answer only applies to friends.
2007-10-12 03:30:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are trying to get them to stay for your own happiness then yes it is selfish
2007-10-12 03:27:25 · answer #3 · answered by xoxo 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You want them to stay because you love them, thats a not selfish...that just shows how much you love them but...in the end you still have to let them go because if you really love someone, as incredibly painful as it is, you have to let them go.
2007-10-12 03:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jaded 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not only is it selfish; but it prevents you from moving on in your life as well.
2007-10-12 04:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by John Silver 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. There get times that you have to move on. For better and not for worse. That is why you move on. To be better off. Some people just realise it to late that they have to move on. Forget about the past and look into a better future. Remember one thing today: Today is the first day of the rest of your lofe!!!!!!
2007-10-12 03:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by chantel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is very selfish because as we get older we need to move on with things. Who am I kidding, I MISS MY BFF!! Why are all the questions about bff tonight? WAHHHH!!
2007-10-12 03:28:01 · answer #7 · answered by Monkeygut 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but it's hard not to want them to. My best friend broke up with her fiance and moved in the next month. I tried my best to convince her to stay.
2007-10-12 03:28:13 · answer #8 · answered by Smooch The Pooch 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. The more you try the further from you they go. If you truely love something you must set it free and in time and in love it will come back to you. If you try and get them to stay, you are looking after your needs and direspecting theirs
2007-10-12 05:13:59 · answer #9 · answered by finn mchuil 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is selfish... Its understandable though. No one wants to lose someone close to them. You can keep in touch with them though so keep that in mind..
2007-10-12 08:26:03 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet T 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋