...Would you TELL? =)
2007-10-11 19:55:03 · 56 answers · asked by Georgia Rose 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Think about it, would you want your bestfriend to tell you if she saw your spouse cheating on you? I'm thinking yes. The bad thing is that your bestfriend may not believe you (or worst, think that you're trying to mess up what they have) but the truth is best ...if your bestfriend is really your bestfriend she wouldn't take this against your relationship. Your bestfriend will probably be in denial in the beginning (and may not want to talk to you) but give them time to bounce back. Just let them know that: "This is what I seen, I maybe wrong but I'm just looking out for you as a bestfriend. and I think you should know that...." Something like that. :-)
2007-10-11 20:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No. Tell you why. I have seen a few of these in the past and on every one, the person who told was not believed and it ruined friendships even though the cheating spouse was caught. I might try and see where the ceheater was going, if it were in public and call their spouse to meet me for something and let them see for themselves without saying anything and act just as shocked.(I'm a schemer)
2007-10-12 03:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have a simple philosophy about My friends: "They are the family I do not have".
Firstly I would establish as to whether or not He/She was actually cheating....no jumping to conclusions......and then, having made sure that I had the right details......and substantiating evidence.....I would give My friend a chance to 'accidentally discover' what was going on for Him/Herself. Otherwise I would bring Their spouse undone so fast it would take Your breath away.
It is better to find out and feel the hurt, than to live in a state of ignorance and trust.
2007-10-11 20:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by Ashleigh 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would have to be VERY sure that I was correct in my assumption. I'd want my best friend to be warned about the spouse's infidelity, but not if what I saw was innocent. Sometimes people don't think before they speak and they can cause alot of unnecessary pain
2007-10-11 20:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Absolutly not they are my BEST friend not just a friend but a best friend.. No not till I knew a little more of the facts and than probably yes. But how good do you get along with the spouse? And remember once you tell and they forgive you are going to lose the best friend status believe me on this... Look if she finds out on her own and you dont go blab after the fact you will still be the best friend but if she finds out than you tell her I knew but did not want to tell. You will be crusified... so be carefull.. Good luck Grant M in Pennsylvania
2007-10-11 20:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I would approach the cheating spouse & tell them they have 24 hrs to tell their partner or I will.
2007-10-11 20:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by MJR 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would give your best friends' spouse a certain time limit to go on his own and tell the truth. If they don't, then i think you should tell your friend, she deserves to know the truth
2007-10-11 19:58:42 · answer #7 · answered by happy14 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-10-11 19:58:00 · answer #8 · answered by joss 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes i would because like they say sometimes the true hearts but is the best way to go if you don't than you will be covering your best friends husbands lie and would be lying to your friend be honest trust me you would feel better inside your head even thought it might hurt you to say it and see your friend crying good part is that she would have the best shoulder to cry in lol, BEST OF LUCK FOR YOU AND YOU FRIEND!!!
I HATE MAN THAT LIKES CHEATING IT MAKES ME SO MAD YOU GOT NO IDEA I HATE IT HATE IT HATE IT.
2007-10-11 20:02:08 · answer #9 · answered by sweet kiss 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well this is a tricky one.
Because, well, my best friend is a guy.
And he is married.
And he is cheating on his wife.
With me.
So.
If I saw her cheating on him.
Yeah, I'd tell him.
But then again I don't know if I should.
I mean what if her best friend saw me and him together.
I'd hate for her best friend to tell on us.
But he's the one I'm loyal to because he is my best friend, not her.
I'd hate to hurt him. But then again knowing him, he'd probably be relieved.
So in conclusion.
Yep. Defiantly.
2007-10-11 20:04:32 · answer #10 · answered by some girl in La. 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋