I have been living with my boyfriend for almost 7 yrs now and we have 1 little girl, he has a little boy from another woman who i look after as my own. About 3 yrs ago he broke up with me because i was fighting with his girlfriend, he brought her to the house while i was there and i beat her up. he chased me from his house got custody of my child and just throw my personal belongings outside. he would go abroad with different girls and spend money like nobody's business
i stayed with some realtives within the area, got myself a job and trired to move on. I used to go to his house to see my child and then 1 yr later he came begging to take him back, i did take him back because i loved him and i had missed my little girl. now i 've been with him for over 2 yrs now and his money has run out, the kids are not going to sch, i pay for everything in the hse,i don't have a car if am late 5 minutes he he shouts at me and tells me to leave him and stay by myself. am cheating on him and all.
2007-10-11 19:43:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This guy was given custody bcoz i was not working. Now he says i can stay with her if am not working , he doesn't want her to be looked after by some strangers. if i have to work on weekends it becomes an issue. When he had money he never even thought of buying me a car , he says all i ever wanted from hm are material things. Now i want to leave him him when he has no money. he blames it all on me
2007-10-11 21:11:05 · update #1
If you love him you have to take the bad with the good. As long as he had money it must of been okay and now that he is down in the dumps you are thinking about leaving him because he gets upset with you. He is shouting at you and accusing you of cheating because of his own guilt. It is easier for a man to throw the blame your way then to accept it.
If it gets where you cannot handle it any more then you probably will have to leave but what about your child? If he does not have a job but has the custody of your child, will he still be able to keep her? Can you go on without your child again? This is a big question you have to ask yourself.
2007-10-11 19:56:25 · answer #1 · answered by craft painter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do y'all live in a double wide or one of the economy models?
Was the cheaters guy doing an interview when the fight broke out?
Wasn't this on the Jerry Springer show a while back?
2007-10-12 02:48:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to you local Battered women's shelter. Call your local sheriff or police dept for the location. They will help you get back on your feet. and file for custody of your child. Get your child out of that situation before the child think that it is acceptable to treat someone like that or be treated like that. You are responsible to make sure that that child does not live like that!!!
2007-10-12 02:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't have the second thought by leaving him immediately now.no point 4 u to stay with him anymore even if u still love him since u can support urself n ur baby independently.look 4 someone who really cares 4 u n ur baby.think 4 ur future.good luck.
2007-10-12 02:54:22 · answer #4 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. The tables are turned now. You got your life together, his has fallen apart by his own hand, He's a bum. Look on the bright side- you won't have to divorce him.
2007-10-12 02:49:45 · answer #5 · answered by kttphoenix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your relationship with him is not healthy and it seems that it is going no where. So why not stop right away to avoid hurting each other further.
2007-10-12 02:54:05 · answer #6 · answered by Sabrina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was gonna say to just get in the game like ea sports
....... whatever that means
chyea!
if he doesn't have any money take his broke @ss home, you heard what fergie says, she is actually right for once.
TROGDOORRRRRR!!
2007-10-12 02:58:43 · answer #7 · answered by Stanislav 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him or else you will regret that you didn't do the right thing
2007-10-12 03:02:13 · answer #8 · answered by Ronnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How are you still with him after all of that? leave him
2007-10-12 02:49:44 · answer #9 · answered by madchiman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave him and go to school, with your children.
2007-10-12 02:49:06 · answer #10 · answered by Shaggy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋