Crossdresser that wants to dress is not looking for a sex thing..My wife is not that free with me .?

Question

I just wanted to know if other gies wives do this to them too. I worded the first question wrong..Thanks

Answer 1

Just tell your wife that you want to dress-up like a girl so you can see what it's like to be a girl, at least for a little while. Tell her you've always wondered what it was like & ask her if she'd help you see what it's like to be a girl.

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Answer 2

Your question is difficult to understand. I take it to mean that you are a crossdresser. You are happy being a man and do not want to change your sex. However, your problem is that your wife does not want you to do crossdressing.

This is a very common problem with crossdressers. The most important thing for you to do is to communicate openly with your wife, and to take her feelings into consideration too. Then you and your wife should agree on what is and what is not allowed. You will have to let her know that she comes first in your life and that you are trying hard to please her.

Answer 3

When I got married, my wife knew I was a crossdresser, even participated in in buy choosing what I should wear and shopping with me.

Then abruptly she demanded it stop. It was now wrong, sick, immoral and I was diseased. I needed to be cured.

This came from a woman who is bisexual. A woman who before me was in a relationship with another woman for 8 years.

Things did not work out between us with the crossdressing playing only a small role in the split.

My advice is, talk to her, have you and her read "My Husband Betty" by Helen Boyd Find a compromise and make sure she understands that dressing is a part of you and not a bad part.

You have to realize tho that unless you are "out" about your dressing, you are asking her to keep your secret. That's a lot of pressure to put on someone. You are essentially putting her into the closet with you.

And you have to remember that because you dress but are married to her, she is going to question your sexuality AND hers. a question that will be in her mind... "if I have sex with him and he likes to dress as a female.. am I a lesbian?"

I wish you the best of luck, and no, you are not alone.

Answer 4

while you're nervous approximately offending all of us else, then call the bridal keep and clarify the type you experience. Ask them in the event that they have any "slower" circumstances they might propose placing an appointment for. Or ask them in the event that they are able to make an exception and provide help to come back in appropriate at last for an hour. yet as quickly as I have been in a bridal keep and a flow-fabric cabinet got here in to attempt on robes, i does no longer be indignant except they have been making a mockery out of being a bride. Be care-loose! Do something wild on your existence!

Answer 5

I don't think that I would be that comfortable with my husband cross dressing either. I married a man not a man dressed up as a woman. I think it's fine if you go into the marriage with all of this on the table.

Answer 6

My wife tolerates me dressing and sometimes buys me things like petticoats and knickers btu these days I usually only "dress" when I am working as a maid.

Answer 7

well dress as u like and she should be proud of u and trust u and say this is my sexy hot husband lol
and she should dress sexy too lol

Answer 8

Ok well I will take a point or two myself...sorry reword it again...don't quite get it.

Answer 9

hey thnx 4 the 2 points...haha..hehe

Answer 10

HOW ARE YOU,THANKS