My friend and I are both 15 and we are both crushing on this guy that's the same age as us. Today I found out that he likes me, so if he asks me out, is it okay to say yes? Or is it a betrayal to our friendship?
2007-10-11 15:51:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
im a guy i would hate your friend if shewas the reason she made u say no, cuz she isnt a true friend for holding you back, if she was ur friend she will understand and let you move on cuz she knows ull be happy
2007-10-11 15:54:49 · answer #1 · answered by john b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say yes! If she is not happy for you and is going to try to break up what you got going with this guy then she is not a true friend. There is plenty of other guys out there. True friends are happy for their friends happiness and she will move on and find someone else.
2007-10-11 22:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by Still Standing 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think that you should have a chat with your friend first.
It isn't worth ruining your friendship, is it?
But if she's a good friend she'll give you the okay to go out with him anyway, it's just a mark of respect.
2007-10-11 22:55:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough one.You have to talk to your friend about it.Its really a moral decision,because at your age in 10 years you wont know either of them so just do what feels right.Either way, you end up learning about yourself,and in 10 years,thats all that really matters.
2007-10-11 22:57:45 · answer #4 · answered by tweek4_ahh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its fine tell her to get over it. Your 15 anyways if you do start a relationship itll only be 5% successful, ur friendship could last a lifetime
2007-10-11 22:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by *-kC-* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that he has asked you out. Ask her what she thinks about that and if you go out with him will it bother her.
If it does, then you have to decide if going out with him is worth losing her friendship over.
On the other hand, if he had asked her out instead of you, ask her what she would have done. If your good friends then she will want you to be happy, and visa versa...
2007-10-11 23:03:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at this point,he,s free game,he can.t help that he likes you better.the rule is if a girl has a boyfriend and they break up he;s off limits to you,as long as she;s your friend. we never go out with or friends broke up boyfriends,You wouldn't;t want her to do that to you.boys come and go but a true friend is forever.she.ll be hurt but she too will find someone,even if you let her hang out with the two of you she might find one of his friends interesting and you all could double date here and there,hang out together.just tell her your going to help her find someone...best of luck......Mia
2007-10-11 23:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friend if its ok.
If she says that its ok and shes all sad and everything that means she is not ok with it. I don't want you guys fighting. It is a shame to lose a good friend over a worthless "hott" guy. =]
2007-10-11 22:57:34 · answer #8 · answered by agi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your friend is TRULEY your friend, she'll get alittle jealous, but she should understand. but heres the catch, is there one of you who always gets something better or is better at something than the other? if your the "lucky"one, dont do it, but if you are the same, go right ahead. if she gets mad just say, "i thought you were my friend and you would understand" that whole drama thing. dont saying it all mean though. say it like you mean it. nicely.
2007-10-11 22:59:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he choose u not u choose him so it not betrayal of friendship, if u are the one asking him first that is betray of friendship.
2007-10-11 22:57:37 · answer #10 · answered by mystic m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋