Would a normal forty-year-old man still jump at the chance to sleep with an 18-year-old even if she was overweight? (I'm talking about consensual sex)
2007-10-11 15:30:44 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
A self-respecting man usually wouldn't want to sleep with overweight girl -- regardless of her age -- not trying to be discriminatory or anything -- anyway, there are guys who 'into' such things, a form of fetish -- I mean personally wouldn't find her sexy, if really out-of-shape would guess she apathetic, 'let herself go', or has eating disorder --
in any case, there IS a considerable age-difference, but 'anything goes' [more-or-less] in today's world
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2-others-at-least: 'a hole is a hole' & 'just to show I've still 'got it' ' -- I'm sure all men aren't that crass or that desperate -- I for one passed on several possible relationships, when just didn't find them attractive.
2007-10-11 15:38:20 · answer #1 · answered by jay ess 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I don't find that appalling. I do think that is kind of degrading to (1) Forty year old men and (2) people who happen to be overweight. I don't know. Who is to say that a normal forty year old man might find a young girl attractive despite her weight. He might see her as something other than an easy lay! He might even have scruples about the age difference and still be attracted to her. It seems like you are saying that he would ignore her weight just because she is young. That's a trade-off! Nah, get real here. He might jump at the chance, but not because she's only eighteen. That's just over simplyfying!
2007-10-11 15:45:33 · answer #2 · answered by cowboybabeeup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal or Abnormal? Depends on your definition. Most 40 year olds only speak & socialize with 18 year old relatives of the family or personal acquantances on a casual basis.
But odds are good, that if he's just a friend, he doesn't care about your weight. Unless he is on the 'make'. Your age alone makes the conquest attractive, reqardless of your weight.
It's really why " you " would want to sleep with a 40 year old man? That should be at question really.
Do you feel 'he' is the only one who would want to sleep with you because of your weight or personal insecurities or lack of boyfreinds in your age group?
Ask your self? Do you Love & Respect this man? And 10 years from now, where will you both be? & will you Look Back? And think "What the Hxll!! was I thinking?
2007-10-11 15:42:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why does the 18 year old sound like being overweight is the only reason a 40 year old man would have sex with her???
Men are men, if they want to sleep with a fat, skinny, ugly, beautiful or whatever woman - it is their choce.
Age nor appearance does not always have anything to do with it.
I hope you are not the 18 year old with this low self esteem.
2007-10-11 15:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by SweetLittleSister 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on the person. i dont want to get into your personal life and ask personal questions so i'll watch what i say.
a several years ago when i was in grade 8, there was a teacher who looked about in his 50's and everyone could tell he wanted to sleep with most of the 14 yearolds but thats just his pedafile self. but many guys like younger women. so there is a chance that the anser to your question is yes but im not sure what the odds are but the answer is definatly not a no if your talking about all 40-year-old men
2007-10-11 15:39:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it changed into consensual, then why do not you? the position are you coming from? Are you in contact about the age enormous difference, or could or not it truly is okay if the 18 365 days old changed into skinny? likely maximum 40 365 days old adult adult males have sex with overweight women those who're plenty older than 18.
2016-10-09 01:45:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
A 40 year old man would sleep with any 18 year old woman.
If it is a partnership and consensual sex then there must be an attraction
1/2 of women in this country are overweight, so are men
As long as it is enjoyable the weight should not matter.
2007-10-11 15:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by Sky B 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
A lot of your questions are about young women and older men. If you think you're overweight and only an older man will want to be with you then you're wrong. If a guy likes your personality then he probably would. If you'remore confident then you'll have better luck finding someone who likes you for you.
2007-10-11 15:38:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh i would really hope not... and thats only because he is 40!
it doesnt matter what the girl looks like thats not what any type of sex is!
over weight people are beautiful too! im 60 lbs over weight and i know i'm fine so many people tell me anyways.
but if the girl wants to have sex with that 40 yr old man it would have to be because she doesnt feel good about herself or that nobody her age wants her but thats not true there are prince charmings for EVERYONE!
2007-10-11 15:37:43 · answer #9 · answered by love_in_him 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hope not, but you know how some men are...they will jump at anything that has sex written all over it, lol! Hey you might get a sugar daddy out of it, lol. Just be careful and safe. Always use protection, no matter what age he is.
2007-10-11 15:36:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋