I would have the baby. If I still couldn't tell which one was the father. I will tell them both that they COULD be the father and then have a paternity test.
2007-10-11 16:12:59
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answered by little lamb 4
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I would tell both men. They deserve to know that they may be a daddy. You would prob have to wait till the baby was born to take a DNA test.
2007-10-11 22:24:35
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answered by carriec 7
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It's not fair to stick a man with the responsibility for a baby that may not be his. You must tell them both that it might be; then get a DNA test once the baby is born. Or, better yet, get them both to sign off and arrange and adoption.
2007-10-11 22:25:06
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answered by Terri J 7
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Tell both of them. You can't take a paternity test unless you have dna from the father. Then they can match the dna with the baby's dna. You need to tell them, the baby will want to know who the real father is when he/she grows up.
2007-10-11 22:25:33
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answered by lordmisrule2004 4
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I would take a paternity test after the baby was born. And I would tell both partners.
2007-10-11 22:23:00
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answered by Betrayed and Insane 5
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count exactly the date when you have the intercourse, who were you with. other wise get prepared that both guys also wont admit they are the daddy of the baby.... or worse come to worse, get a DNA done on the baby with both the guys
2007-10-11 22:24:16
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answered by Kitty 2
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I'd be honest with them both. Once the baby is born, you can do a DNA test to see who the true father is.
LL
2007-10-11 22:23:11
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answered by lanalang 5
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That's pretty sad that someone wouldn't know....
but in that case, I'd say she'd better do some calculations for the most likely candidate, then do blood tests after baby is born....
2007-10-11 22:22:33
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answered by from HJ 7
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Get some daddy DNA. They will both deny it no matter what you do so you need to do a paternity test.
2007-10-11 22:23:45
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answered by Anonymous
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well you can just be honest with both men, so they wont be surprized and be so mad. And you will just have to have the test done.
by the way dont listen to those who are judging you right now. they are no better than you are! Remember that!
2007-10-11 22:25:23
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answered by Anonymous
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