i fear that people won't accept me for who I am?
I know sounds strange but it is my fear..
2007-10-11 14:06:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
IF PEOPLE can't accept the way you are then they are missing out on somebody very nice and cutes and the best pirson on this earth you should not fear that
2007-10-12 02:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by ABE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this fear is common for almost everyone. I am not sure "who you are", or what exactly it is you are afraid about yourself that people won't accept? Is it your outer appearence you are worried about? Is it your sexuality? Is it your religion? Is it the things that you believe in? It is kind of hard to answer this question. All I can say is, that they say just be yourself. Don't ever try to be someone you are not. Not everyone is going to like you. But as long as you are true to yourself, and honest about who you are then it is their problem if they don't accept you. Don't ever be ashamed of who you are. Good Luck to you!
2007-10-11 21:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's not strange at all!
The key to overcoming that sort of fear is to just be yourself, and people will come to you. Don't try to show off or do something that you don't usually do.
Also, if people don't accept you for who you are, it's them who has the problem.
2007-10-11 21:13:50 · answer #3 · answered by Allison 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think firstly, you should look for friends with similar interests as you. Then after interaction with them, I think you will be able to open up to people more and slowly, you will get used to your personal image and be confident of who you really are. It's better to be natural than put up a false front and risk getting caught by other people. Then they may lose trust in you. But if you just be who you are, they will give you your due respect. :)
I know how you are feeling. I get that feeling sometimes too. But good luck! :)
2007-10-11 21:28:21 · answer #4 · answered by UnspokenShadow 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm like that too!
If I'm with someone and not with my best friend(who is like the only person I'm truly myself around) I feel like I can't say certain things or act a certain way.
Just try to remember that if those people don't accept you, then they weren't right for you. Trust me, I'm sure there are plenty of people who will like the way you are, you just have to show them!
2007-10-11 21:10:35 · answer #5 · answered by A 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don’t know why you ask that or why you have such fear but I tell you..
I am proud to be a friend of yours.
2007-10-12 14:08:08 · answer #6 · answered by Mic 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
then u got a big problem.
this fear of yours will become the very reason why people will not accept you.
think abt it.
2007-10-11 21:09:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to love yourself and realize that if someone doesn't accept you for who you are, then it's THEIR problem. Always be yourself. When people try to be someone they are not just to please others then they are only setting themselves up for disaster.
2007-10-11 22:25:22 · answer #8 · answered by Ohioguy95 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just accept yourself for who you are meaning to be yourself and bring out all the confidence that you have in you.
2007-10-12 14:10:42 · answer #9 · answered by @NGEL B@BY 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
REMEMBER
COURAGE IS NOT THE ABSENCE OF FEAR BUT RATHER THE JUDGEMENT THAT THERE ARE MORE IMPORTANT THINGS THAN FEAR
2007-10-12 09:57:17 · answer #10 · answered by bjb 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋