My lil brother who is 14 say he likes naked men! He said they are sexy. I am kinda freaked out!! Is my lil brother gay?? He always was strange, but he never had sad this! PLZ HELP!
2007-10-11 13:34:38 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
14 can be a weird age for boys where they are discovering and feeling all sorts of weird things.
Just saying that alone doesn't necessarily mean he is gay... maybe he is just a little goofy.
I would be more worried if he is trying on your mom's clothing and makeup and singing showtunes, flailing around limpwristedly around the house stressing about how he has nothing to wear to the bookstore.
2007-10-11 13:39:14 · answer #1 · answered by Nitro Pipes 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
keep in mind that most boys have a "penis curiosity" and may glance around a little bit in the boys' room. This is especially true of late bloomers and early bloomers alike. After all, how would one know if he was "late" or "early" without checking the competition! This doesn't make a boy gay, of course. Being sexually aroused when looking around may or may not mean you're gay. Many people get excited at sexuality itself, which is male/female independent. That is, some "get off" on sex itself, not necessarily by whom they're watching or thinking about. same-sex activity is common among teens. If he have fantasies like this about other men, it's possible that you have homosexual tendencies.More than half of all teenagers (boys and girls) have had same-sex experiences, and it's not uncommon for some to feel sexually aroused by a setting rather than who's in the setting. For many, sex is sexual no matter who's involved (in reality or in fantasy land). What appeals to a person has a lot to do with the emotional level the person is on with another, this sometimes creates very close relationships which could lead to an emotional, and sometimes erotic situation.
2007-10-11 14:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by Chocolate_Tai_69 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He could be gay or it could be his hormones acting up because a fourteen year old could get an erection reading his homework. So for now just support him. Tell him you love him no matter who he likes, girls or boys and give him a big hug. He is your brother and he always will be, if you do this and he does turn out gay then you will have a brother who trusts you and is close to you. If you push him away you could loose your brother. It can be difficult to come to terms with if your not used to the idea of a gay brother but give it time, he is still the brother you have always loved.
2007-10-12 00:00:42 · answer #3 · answered by rabbit1986 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give the kid a break,
he's 14 years old - his hormones will be going crazy. he may be finding naked men appealing or facinating but chances are he will grow out of it. Vast majority of teenagers struggle with their sexuality at that sorta age and are confused about what they find hot. Doesnt mean they are all gay.
And if he does turn out to be gay, that aint a bad thing at all. Its who he is. But for the time being, its prob best if he doesnt go around saying that sorta stuff to people if he wants his mates 2 not be freaked out...
2007-10-11 13:42:08 · answer #4 · answered by katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably, since he said they were "sexy". Meaning he is probably attracted to them. Not for sure though, because straight guys appreciate the male body as a work of art. Even if you are not gay, you appreciate the body of your gender.
Please don't act like he is strange, he is your brother. Sit down and talk to him and say you are ok with it if he is gay.
2007-10-11 13:42:41 · answer #5 · answered by Zach 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no reason to freak out. He is in the phase of sexual discovery. Let him live this phase without trauma and give him the best and most reasonable advices to him. Besides, being gay is OK!!!
2007-10-11 16:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun, I doubt he really knows at that age.But hey, he's ur brother, its his life if he's gay, well then he's gay. Nothing u can do about it. If he is then you should be happy he's telling u instead of keeping it to himself. That means he's open with u, be happy for him ^^
2007-10-11 13:39:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
his probably just being a kid , at that age its really hard to be able to say YES IM GAY , or WOO IM STRAIGHT its really the devoloping age for sexuality and there will be a lot of unlfluences around this time that will lead to his coming of a sexuality , i myself am 18 and bisexual and still dont understand this whole " we have 1 sexuality" thing.
2007-10-11 13:39:15 · answer #8 · answered by skyboi49 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
And what if your brother is gay? How will this change things? Why do you concern yourself with who he wants to be with?
2007-10-11 13:54:14 · answer #9 · answered by jeremybradley2562 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is probably just trying to freak u out dont let it though just be like yeah i know right then see what he says and let me know !cause i need a good laugh cause i have been so mad lately!
2007-10-11 14:43:45 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋