2007-10-11 13:30:59 · 27 answers · asked by ♥ Plain Nikki 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
they didn't say it to me directly. i was just going down the list of questions my contacts answered to see if i wanted to answer them myself. the question caught my attention and now i'm hurt over their answer. i mean, they were referring to me. so, i removed all my contacts from this account. i don't know. maybe i'm overreacting.
2007-10-11 13:40:29 · update #1
I guess if they were like considered your friend here and on 360 then it may not be silly. I have a lot of contacts but only the ones who I consider friends or have bonds with are on my 360. Casual contacts I really can't let them get to me BUT if any of them are saying bad stuff about me I would delete them in a hurry.
2007-10-11 13:48:23 · answer #1 · answered by FallenAngel© 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, but then again, it's ur feelilngs. ONly u can really determine if it's silly to u. IT's only silly to me because irt's a contact...they don't know u personally. But then again, they do know u on some level, so it can hurt. OR maybe it's just because someone said something hurtful. it's all ur perception, and sensitivity, and no one can say if it's good or bad, because it's urs, and only u can control it. This is just my opinion, but trust me, I've been there, so it is silly, but it's not so silly.
2007-10-11 20:35:48 · answer #2 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. Words hurt sometimes. But you need to figure out why the statement was said. Was it constructive criticizm? Where you slacking off/doing something wrong and got subtly reprimanded? Or was it just a inconsiderate remark?
2007-10-11 20:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by ladytaurus83 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. I think everyone gets hurt by one of their contacts, especially if you were friends. Just my opinion, but a lot of us have probably been through it to some degree.
2007-10-12 00:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its not silly-- Just because we are on the net doesnt mean we dont have feelings. I'm sorry you were hurt.
2007-10-11 20:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by Cowgirl lost seahorse 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ive never had a contact speak to me. I just put them in my eyes and they don't complain.
2007-10-11 20:33:20 · answer #6 · answered by chiquitachase 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take it with a grain of salt, how well do you know your contact? How well do they know you? they cant judge you or say something without really knowing you can they?
2007-10-11 20:38:07 · answer #7 · answered by jk 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no but people are always going to hurt you and if you going to be hurt by everything people say your going to be hurt alot in your live.
2007-10-11 20:37:53 · answer #8 · answered by victor l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how hurtful they have been to you.
No, you're not stupid or silly to have been offended at all, you're only human.
2007-10-11 20:35:28 · answer #9 · answered by ♆Şрhĩņxy - Lost In Time. 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well not really only if he/she said something really hurtful to you or someone you love!
2007-10-11 20:34:07 · answer #10 · answered by Yuyin SD 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋