I have two neighbors that are 13-14 year old girls and they are always coming up to my 10 year old son and asking him to go on a walk with them or just standing there and flirting with him(Im not sure if they are flirting but it sure looks like it)
He was just invited to a bonfire they are having tonight. He said he didnt want to go because he is uncomfortable around them. Are they just being nice? Should i be concerned? Am i worring to much?
2007-10-11 10:45:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
They also like to give him hugs and kisses on the cheek
2007-10-11 10:51:49 · update #1
If he doesnt feel comfortable around them then i guess hes not going to the bonfire. Who knows what their intentions are, at 13 and 14 girls these days are maturing faster and hormones are going crazy, one of them might like him. i wouldnt worry, leave the decisions up to your son if he wants to associate with them or not, so far he doesnt seem interested.
2007-10-11 10:51:32 · answer #1 · answered by Heaven L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless your son does express, that he is extremely uncomfortable, I think you might be worrying too much. The uncomfortable feeling he is feeling is that same feeling we felt around the opposite sex when we were young. He might have used the word uncomfortable because he wasn't sure what word to use. I would not force him to go the the bonfire, but facing your fears is always important, I'm sure he will feel better once it is over. I thought older girls were seeking out older guys.
2007-10-11 10:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by disizit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he is uncomfortable then he shouldn't have to go, but I don't think they are trying to make him feel that way at all. If he wanted to go, the parents would probably be around to check up on them, and he could always come home if he doesn't like it. He's only going to the neighbors.
2007-10-11 10:53:53 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Fancy♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're being bullies. They can be with him becuase he's younger so that gives them power.
Protect him from them!!!!!!! They don't care about him, or about how they might make him feel.
I'm not saying lock him in the house, but if he wants to avoid them, help him.
I can't imagine a more uncomfortable senerio then him at a bonfire with no friends, and no adult on his side, and they can play with him all they want. Then giggle in their hands when he doesn't know how to handle it.
2007-10-11 12:07:18 · answer #4 · answered by pansyblue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your son is ten. They are older than him. If you feel like he shouldn't go, then tell him so. If not, and you feel like he'll be okay, then tell him as well! I think it's best with these ages though that they have a shaparone.
Plus, in my opinion, it seems weird that 13 and 14 year olds would ask a ten year old to go walking with him. They are usually too busy crushing on "Danny" the popular guy at their high school or junior high.
2007-10-11 10:51:45 · answer #5 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would make sure that he's never around them. Kissing on the cheek...I'm a thirteen year old an that's not a good thing. Trust me. I would tell them, politely of course, to leave your son alone.
Hope this helps!!
Bells
2007-10-11 10:55:46 · answer #6 · answered by Knight Owl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-22 01:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the girls are older,they also like him. they are at the age where they want attention from boys. they want him as b/f material. if hes not wanting to go then dont make him. hes to young to start wanting what they want and it will scare him. make up an excuse for him. leave the house around that time with him .just let him enjoy the few innocent years he has left.
2007-10-12 00:24:10 · answer #8 · answered by marilynfsmgm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol they're just playing with him. there's no way someone (especially a girl) would go out with a boy 3-4 years younger then them. I'm a 14 yr old 8th grader, and trust me, the girls do NOT want to go out with 7th graders, not to mention 6th graders. so don't worry too much. they can't do any harm lol
2007-10-11 11:12:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are just kids.....Let the boy have some fun........
Iam pretty sure the 13-14 year old parents will be around..
to check up on them.
2007-10-11 10:49:34 · answer #10 · answered by MrRight 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋