You see there’s this girl at my college and she’s really hot. Blonde hair, blue eyes, hot body.....you get what I m saying.
Plus she is single well at least for now. We kind of been hanging out together lately, just friendly talk. But the problem is I m black (not that it’s wrong for me to date her) but I m like living in a city which is more than 90 percent white and its hard to find a black girl (that is single).
Don’t get me wrong though I m fairly good-looking for a black guy myself. I m tall somewhat muscular and my skin colour and hair would make you think I m t mixed race, and I m taking Pharmaceutical Sciences in college which might impress her .but I m a really shallows type of person and I m afraid I m might get bad looks from people. So should I go for her or just lay back and go look for a brunette or something?
2007-10-11 10:17:25 · 11 answers · asked by Johanex 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
nothing ventured, nothing gained.
you can't keep second-guessing who you date because of what others "might" think (or even what others do) - no one of any ethnicity can please everyone.. .so you've got to please yourself (and her).
2007-10-11 10:22:01 · answer #1 · answered by kent_shakespear 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are two people and it is of no concern what your skin colour is. You are obviously attracted to her and you have a good self esteem.
You can only try and if it works ....well done..but if you are rejected don't take to heart and don't think that it's your skin colour. Then again after you get to know her she may not be the person you first thought she was. Just remember beauty is only skin deep and to be really beautiful that beauty must be on the inside as well.
You have a problem with your race........don't try to be something your not. Impress her with you and if that doesn't work ...you don't need the relationship in the first place.
2007-10-11 11:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by slipper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blonde, brunette, black, white, green or purple... who gives a fu**!
If you like a girl, you shouldn't care what anyone thinks about you being with her. If someone stares at you because you are with a white girl, then stare right back at them. If they say something about it, say something back to them. Demand respect in this world. Dont let other people control your life.
2007-10-11 10:22:50 · answer #3 · answered by Mike G 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ask the girl out and see what she says. Her opinion of whether or not you two should date is the only one that matters.
2007-10-11 10:20:41 · answer #4 · answered by sursumcorda 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It all depends on if she likes Black Guys. I would say just strike up conversation with her and see what's up.
2007-10-11 10:29:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hope you don't choose a girlfriend based on her looks... or haircolor! Ask her out if you like her! Skin color or appearance should not matter.
2007-10-11 10:21:09 · answer #6 · answered by Unafraid 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HELLLLLLL TO THE NAH!
YALLZ BABY WILL COME OUT LOOKIN LIKE A
ALBINO WHOOPI GOLDBERG
SHYT...
EWWWW WHITE GIRLS + LIGHT SKIN DUDES = BIG NO NO!
2007-10-11 10:53:18 · answer #7 · answered by TeeHeeHee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am one of the 12 white girls in my school
i know were your coming from. but dont worry about it. just go for it
2007-10-11 10:59:11 · answer #8 · answered by yah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you like her PERSONALITY, and not just her looks, go for it.
but if you just like her looks, that's way shallow.
you can't build a good relationship on just looks,
what if something happens and her face changes?
would you still like her?
2007-10-11 10:23:09 · answer #9 · answered by supermann08 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i say go 4 it
2007-10-11 10:21:08 · answer #10 · answered by alipinklove444 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋