2007-10-11 09:35:47 · 7 answers · asked by kpoires3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Depending on what you did to lose his trust.
Trust is gained through time but if you really hurt him badly you may never totaly regain it.
Some things can be forgiven just never forgoten.
2007-10-11 09:42:29 · answer #1 · answered by Frenchy-68 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is one of those things that is extremely hard to get back once it has been lost.
You have got to do some soul-searching and I mean the deep down no holds barred kind of soul searching and determine why you did whatever you did to lose your husband's trust in you.
When you have been completely honest with yourself about the reasons, then you need to sit down with your husband and tell him.
It won't be easy and it could always result in him leaving you, but at least you'll know you came clean to him.
You also have to give him the chance to tell you what he thinks about you since you have broken his trust (if he hasn't already). You need to ask him what you can do to earn his trust back.
Good luck.
2007-10-11 09:41:51 · answer #2 · answered by Loves the Ponies 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way a man can truly trust his wife again..he might to some extent if you keep showing him that there's no one more important to you than him..but what I think you have to do is let him do the same--tell'em you're sorry and will never do so again and if he wants to sleep with another woman, it's k with you if that'll make up for your mistake and tell'em ur willing to do whatever it takes 2 earn his trust back-seriously, if he sees that ur willing to go to such lengths--I'm sure it'll let him know how sorry u r--and make'em believe that u'll never do anything to betray his trust again. Even if he does sleep with another woman..still I think it's worth it to earn his trust back--n let'em feel yer love n know how much you care for him. But seriously, woman are better @ forgivin than men--I would never forgiv my gf if she did somthin like that--I might if she would let me sleep with somone else n still love me as much(or more) but she would have to show that she REALLY loves me n make me beleive she'd never do anything like that again. But the thing is in a man's mind it's worse for a woman to cheat on her husband than for a man to cheat on his wife(cuz we're animals-we don't think much wen we're horny)--n even if I were to consider forgivin my gf if she betrayed my trust--I'd have to sleep wid atleast a couple other woman but if she keeps showin me that she loves me--n I'd most likely sleep wid som1 very close 2 her like a cousin so that it would really hurt--cuz if she were to show me that she loves me even after that--I'd beleive it!
2007-10-11 10:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by I'mAnIdiot! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you caint never get the trust you had before it was lost, never, thats why people should think very hard on the things they do, when u take the trust away, its like having a knife stuck right in the middle of ur heart
2007-10-11 09:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be constantly available,let him no where you are every day,for a long,long time.
Call him and let him know your thinking of him when he doesn't expect it. And you probably will have to be constantly reminded of your mistake. If you truly love him keep telling him your sorry and made the biggest mistake of your life.
2007-10-11 09:43:01 · answer #5 · answered by stink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. You cheated on him. He can never forgive you. You gave your body to another man....
2007-10-11 09:39:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What did you do?
2007-10-11 09:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by LJ4Bama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋