Why are these men only after women that will do that when they first meet. I'm sorry I dont know about some women , but I am not just gonna be doing that to anyone. I only will do that to a man that i have known along time that i love and am in a realtionship with for a long time. What the hell is wrong with these women doing this and these men expecting all of us women to do that when we first meet them.
2007-10-11 09:09:14 · 12 answers · asked by baddestbitch 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
honey...just give up. it's a lost cause. women will do it because of the insecurities inflicted upon them by their families friends and societies. and men...well...most of them never really do change, now do they? for the most part they are all just dogs, even gays, and that's not likely it'll ever change.
sorry, but society has surrendered to it libido, and all we can do is just walk away or take it in...hoping that we don't gag and that he's a fast finisher.
-Argiope
2007-10-11 09:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Because it's not the woman they want so much as the BJ. Look at how those men typically treat the woman after getting one...
Their are guys that have no problem with someone that holds out. They are called 'patient'.
Some women do like doing that. It's not for everyone.
2007-10-11 09:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by Pfo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The men probably feel it's safer than intercourse, plus mouths are more active than vaginas. Also, many young girls don't consider it to be "sex" (it is for the guy!) and a loss of their virginity and aren't as hesitant to do it, girls as young as 9 or 10 even, or so I've read in several mainstream magazine articles the past few years.
2007-10-11 10:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sad to say, but some of them are just easy, and want to be liked and accepted.
I feel the same way as you. I will only give you the goods if I've known you for a while!!
2007-10-11 09:13:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
because it works.
Forward men who aren't afraid to make demands are generally viewed as more enticing to women than decent guys who are actually interested in what's inside - those guys get written off as 'boring' or 'just friends.'
The end result? Women ignore what they say the want and chase after what they say they hate.
2007-10-11 09:15:17 · answer #5 · answered by kent_shakespear 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I forget which comedienne said it, but the joke was: Straight or gay - all men want a BJ.
That's about as much as I can add to this thread, because I'm a man, but not a straight one.
2007-10-11 09:14:36 · answer #6 · answered by Clint 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do it because it turns me on. I love the way a man tastes, love the moans as it drives them wild. I love to please a man. Not when I first meet them or anything, but it is a big fetish of mine. And men love me for it, how much I really enjoy it, so what's the harm? I'm no slut, just a woman who appreciates and loves to please a man.
2007-10-11 09:29:59 · answer #7 · answered by Eraserhead 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This question is really in the wrong category. Might try posting it in the Singles & Dating section.
2007-10-11 09:13:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
kind of lost it . Is this in America or in the the world cause I should really move and NOW!!
2007-10-11 11:59:47 · answer #9 · answered by Pacito 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then don't ever expect a guy to pleasure YOU orally if you don't want to reciprocate (that means do it, too). Tit for tat, eh, what?
2007-10-11 12:21:28 · answer #10 · answered by AmericanPatriot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋