How do YOU deal with death?

Answer 1

very badly...

Answer 2

Someone I love dearly was murdered 3 days ago. So far I have not been able to shed a single tear, have yet to sleep, and can think of nothing other then what I should do. I don't know if there is an actual correct way to deal with death. Everyone's situation is their own and could never be compared with anothers. I have had such an intense hatred and rage building inside of me since the loss. No matter who it has been I refuse to listen to any of the advice people are giving. So I believe that if someone wants to really deal with death...... They have to do it completely within themselves. No one else can tell you what you should feel, or what someone meant to you, so how could the answers be within anyone other then the one person who knows every detail? It may not be right, but I can think of no other way I will be able to get through this other then by listening to my heart, and not relying on any advice that can't completely conform to you.

Answer 3

I just had a death last week in the family. This was a very tragic and horrific death. I spent much time crying and another couple of days drinking. Now I am just sad.

Answer 4

I haven't had to deal with it a whole lot, mostly when I was younger and I don't remember much of it. I recently had a close friend die, and I'll tell you, I was so mad and sad and frustrated at the same time. I couldn't even show emotion until the funeral. Then it all came out. Seeing is believing to me, and I guess my emotions take the same path.

Answer 5

I watched my Dad die a year ago and it was bad-- And I'm still trying to deal with it-- 1 minute at a time and knowing that he is no longer sick or in pain helped me. Being around my family and friends helped-- And most of all my wonderful Husband he's been there for me every step of the way.

Answer 6

Not very well...I have quite a difficult time dealing with death and separation.

Answer 7

I don't really deal with it. I say my goodbyes and I move on, I just make sure to remember all the good qualities of that person and the good times we shared. When I die I don't want people to mourn, it would make me feel like I was the cause of their sorrow. I'd rather them throw a huge party and say hey, that Wes was a good guy.

Answer 8

My death? No big deal! Loved ones? Fight tooth and nail, with all the love and care you can give.

Answer 9

I accept it as a reality of Life (or, in my case, lifestyle). Dying is not the end of Everything; it's merely moving on to the Next thing.

Later Daze! =)

Answer 10

I lost my brother and sister at a very early, and unsuspecting way. It was sad for me at first, as I missed them so much. As time moves on, and I know that they're at a happier place, no more sadness, as they weren't very happy people here on earth, it made me see that where they R now at least they're at peace.

Answer 11

I deal with it the same way I realize the cup of coffee I'm having will eventually be empty - it's natural and inevitable, and enjoy it while you can.