I met with a woman last September(yes 13 months ago), and she had very nice pics of herself(5'8" and probably in her 160s) so she had nice curves. When I met her, she didn't tell me she gained like 200 lbs. This woman was a whale. I felt nasty and gross for still agreeeing to make out with her like she expected me to do when I said all this in my email when I thought she was in her 160s like in her photos. She was butt ugly!! I hated every minute of it and I could not wait to get out of there. I love women well-proportioned women with curves(130s to 150s if she's 5'4") but I'm not attracted to women who are skin and bones, but defintiely repulsed by 400 lb.beach whales.
She deliberately misled me by emailing me old pics before she gained weight without telling me about her horendous weight gain. Wouldn't you also be pissed off if you were me?
2007-10-11 08:10:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Next time before you agree to meet someone from the net ask to see her on web cam. That way you can see her live and there will be no surprises.
2007-10-11 10:51:57 · answer #1 · answered by pretty_sweet_mom2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, people should mislead others. Really. But always ask for pics taken recently...better to make it a project for the both of you to take a pic right then and upload it at the same time. Or web cam. That way, you lessen the chance of getting in a situation where someone hasn't admitted to themselves that they've gained weight and still think they look like they did in the photos.
2007-10-11 08:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
2 Septembers ago and you are still thinking about this? Why haven't you gotten over it? It was a mistake, you made a mistake... that's it... learn from it.
It was your choice to go and you went.
It was your choice to chat with her and you did.
It was your choice to make out with her and you did.
That is it... end of story.
You learned from it, now don't make the same mistake.
Nobody forced you to anything with her, even if you had agreed to it.
NO is NO... for both men and women.
GOOD LUCK!!
2007-10-11 08:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by iwish4love 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all, who held a gun to your head to "make out" with her? Did your d**k get hard?
What you could have done was meet her, chatted with her, been nice to her, and then left. You didn't have to "make out" with her. You're pathetic and believe me, she felt more nasty and gross than you felt.
PS: She must have made some impression on you, for you to still not be over her.
2007-10-11 08:16:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
The risks of internet relationships. If it mattered so much to you you should have stuck to your guns and not made out with her, then 13 months later you would not still be upset.
2007-10-11 08:17:01 · answer #5 · answered by Connie D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure what ever... I would like to hear her side of the story especially about how rotten and inadequately equipped you're are in the sack..
2007-10-11 08:17:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
cant believe u actually did it to her. In crude material terms this would be misleading n breach of contract , you shuld have never made out with her .......next time pay more attention to ur instinct which was telling you to get the hell out of there.
2007-10-11 08:24:04 · answer #7 · answered by smashingdelite 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
u sound really shallow yes she mis led you that was not good on her part but then again she wanted you to fall in love with her personality other than her looks
2007-10-11 08:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be as gullible as you obviously are to begin with. You have no right to be pissed off...you CHOSE to be gullible, that is YOUR fault not her's.
2007-10-11 09:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you must have been hard up to be that repulsed but yet make out with her.
2007-10-11 08:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋